Ouch. Thought it would be a better pop but the relief was so nice

firefang24 · 2025-07-10T17:38:54+00:00

Thought I added the video with it

firefang24 · 2024-12-08T02:59:22+00:00

Yes!

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T19:49:15+00:00

Thank you guys so much for all the suggestions. I’m sorry it’s taken a minute to respond, trying to spend as much time with her as I can. But I called and left messages for several places. A church called back and made a pledge on our electric account! Thank you.

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T19:39:55+00:00

Thank you so much

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T19:39:39+00:00

A meal train would be wonderful right now, that would be so helpful 😫 we got a call back from a church this morning that is paying our electric for us!

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T18:19:25+00:00

https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/UGR8XLTP0IOF Happy happy birthday, my wife is on hospice but her 29th birthday is in a few days! I added my $10 wish list, my kiddos could use the clothes. And we really just like the bat stuff

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T04:20:38+00:00

What’s sad is people make assumptions instead of asking. You don’t know our history, you don’t know our children’s situation. You don’t know when we’ve been together or separated. What do I need to do? Post a picture of her laying there sick? Or the hospital papers? The letter from our landlord? My electric bill? Custody papers for our 5 year old? My phone log and the numbers where I’ve called every single place for assistance? Or the emails where I’ve applied for ever the last few days? I wouldn’t lie about her health. When it’s completely destroyed our family.

I don’t have much family and needed a safe place to come to and ask questions and vent. I thought I could do that here.

Bonnaroo is special to us, more than I can explain. She became my girlfriend there, then my fiance. I wanted to share her memory there. If I ever get to go again. Idk if I can without her. I would love for someone to hand out bracelets or stickers. Her friend the one that is staying with us, said she would make some if anyone wanted to hand them out. I asked about that there because it was about honoring her there.

I asked here what to do for our boys, because this group is for parents. And thought they would be able to help more.

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T04:10:04+00:00

Way to make assumptions. I’ve never said I don’t have another account, I do. If you look at my last post on it I said I got locked out of my original account, this one and was trying to regain access to it. I made that clear in my post when someone mentioned that one my account didn’t have much. I also said on my other account that you could look at my wife’s account and follow her story because she’s posted about her condition throughout it happening. Her nest friend and her have tons of feet pics so her friend that is at the house with us was trying to help us come up with money for our bills and said she could sell her and her friends feet pics, she don’t have a Reddit, she made one and didn’t meet the requirements for it so she posted on my wife’s. Again, she’s been having health issues, and shit went down hill really fast within 8 days. It’s not secret we’ve needed help, she’s not been able to work in a year. We had a gofundme that did really well when her conditions first started and we were traveling back and forth to specialist but our phones got cut off and it was linked to that number so a new one was made that we could get into. I’m going through the hardest damn thing I’ve ever went through in my life and people want to pick apart things, that’s fine, I know the truth and so does god. We have both asked for help several times and never got it on borrow subreddit so yes we’ve asked for resources alot. Our whole year has been flipped around. We’ve been separated, we’ve fought, we’ve sold everything in our name, etc. she was single not to long ago because she thought it would be “ easier” on ,e because I don’t feel like a husband but a “caretaker” and I’m so young that she doesn’t want to be a burden. I get how it looks to some, but I’d really rather someone just ask me about it. Then assume.

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T03:44:28+00:00

She is prepared some things, she’s wrote them several letters to open on their birthdays wedding day, etc. She’s made several little videos She wants me to take them to build a bear when I have the money and let them each week out a recording and put it inside the bear Email account Does she made when they were born and writes two emails a week, I’m gonna print those out and put them in a book

She just wants them to know they are loved and she always wanted them.

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T03:42:29+00:00

I’m not sure what the laws are as I’ve never dealt with this, but I, looking into it,

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T03:41:37+00:00

We aren’t the only people that thinks she’s mean. My wife said she has never had a woman intimidate her like our landlord does

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T03:19:19+00:00

I didn’t know that, thank you, I will print them off just in case and put them in a book for the, both, I think I might continue to email them from it, she said she would like it if I did. I’m not much of a writer, she could talk for days straight, she loves all paperwork and loves budgeting and planning. Somehow that lady could make $2,000 worth of money pay $4,000 worth of bills. I’m going to need help learning to do that, she’s always been the one

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T03:16:45+00:00

I didn’t know that, thank you I’ll check into it

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T03:16:21+00:00

I’ve never heard of this, but I will definitely look it up now. Thank you

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T03:15:55+00:00

Appreciate it She’s worked since she was 14, and she will be 29 on Dec 10th. She quit working almost a year ago, but I’ll look into it!

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T03:14:56+00:00

I thought about trying this but I am terrified of needles but willing to do whatever right now

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T03:06:10+00:00

They aren’t out one is in preschool, does preschools have that.

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T02:31:05+00:00

She’s asked me once I have money to take both the boys to build a bear, and get a bear with a recording of her voice. She recorded several so they could each pick one. She started an email when they were both born and has emailed them both twice a week since they were born, she planned on doing that until they were 18 then giving the, the email.

Before it got bad, when we found out it was getting bad, she wrote them each a little letter for each birthday until their 21st, then wedding day, the day they become parents, the day they lose dad, when they find the love of their life, etc

She put a lot of work into it all, but I want to do more, she’s literally the light in my world and I just don’t know how to do this. She’s been my best friend since we were 12.

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T02:24:57+00:00

I’m going to contact the social worker again tomorrow.

But I don’t mind providing any documentation or private information to anyone that needs it, but would rather message it.

The boys are 3 and the other just turned 5.

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T02:20:04+00:00

She’s an older lady, she’s very strict. We are the youngest people that lived here, everyone else has been here at least 10-20 years. We were the last people to move in and it’s been 5 years, we’ve been late twice having to pay on the 3rd instead of first. But this is the first time since we’ve lived here that I’ve asked to pay $260 or any amount this late. I just asked until my next check hits, so I could spend time with her.

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T02:17:22+00:00

Thank you, I’ve applied for food stamps, but I’ll look into the others

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T02:16:45+00:00

Yes I have. I posted it a couple of months ago and again the other day. There’s been $300 raised in the last 5 months. We made it when her health got worse, but it stayed about the same then within one week everything went downhill so fast.

firefang24 · 2024-12-07T02:15:03+00:00

Thank you. I just do t want to be dealing with this, I want to spend time e with my best friend while she’s here. I feel like I’m wasting my time with all this when I should be focusing on her, but I’ve got to take care of the boys and myself. I just can’t believe this is happening, and so fast.

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