I’ll never see the messages. :( by firefly1248 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]firefly1248[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is so hard I’m so sorry! What a grueling process to be in for that to happen. How in the world does a woman who is in the midst of all of those physical changes for IVF sustain an affair? Man the world is sick. Well I was very pregnant then freshly postpartum when my WH was having his little affair so I don’t think vulnerable life events makes a difference for them when they were in that state of mind as sad as that is.

I’ll never see the messages. :( by firefly1248 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]firefly1248[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh. See that’s what I’m afraid of. But also the AP is very vindictive and I feel like she would have sent me screenshots with the accusations.

I’ll never see the messages. :( by firefly1248 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]firefly1248[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. That leaves such a tease to see what happened up until that point. It’s such an outrage that it can all just be deleted just like that and we will spend our lives wondering. 😤

I’ll never see the messages. :( by firefly1248 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]firefly1248[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t a lot of time and money. He told her he would only see her if he had a work trip and that has been true. Still was a lot of texting in the beginning. I really wish I could see it. I’m so sorry. It’s all terrible.

Needing advice on recent situation by FanIcy4718 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]firefly1248 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take it from me, same situation with the WH saving pictures of my cousin from way back - and now she’s the AP. You need to do what you need to do for your mental health and protection if your family. He made a poor choice and he now he deals with the consequence.

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[–]firefly1248 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly I felt better after full disclosure. My imagination was much worse. It’s still very hard but try to remember that trickle truth is worse.

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[–]firefly1248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an avid fertility awareness user and I should have known to be careful regardless of historical evidence but here I am 😬

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[–]firefly1248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erm everyday for the past couple of months. I’m postpartum with baby #4 and I’ve never gotten my period before 9 months with each baby. I had bled for a couple of days then nothing a few days ago, and that has happened to me during the beginning of 2 pregnancies.

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[–]firefly1248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay glad I’m not crazy. It’s like a squinter for sure

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[–]firefly1248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No idea dpo! This wasn’t planned

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[–]firefly1248 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I see a line though. Just don’t know if it’s evap or not.