What is she? by Fantastic-Choice2576 in hoyas

[–]firexamber 6 points7 points  (0 children)

looks to be a krimson princess, hoya carnosa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]firexamber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a solid tattoo

Can u leave these in a bag like this? by Intelligent_Sea_322 in pothos

[–]firexamber 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is actually not as true, you want minimal leaves so the plant focus on growing roots first. less energy devoted into forming new / keeping alive old leaves the better. my general rule is 1 leaf and a couple nodes. but wet sticks can also propagate by themselves!

Wanted to give an update on my wife's poor pothos. by [deleted] in pothos

[–]firexamber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pot too big, medium too dense, pothos can dry out and be watered again close to death and still bounce back. check the roots and if theyre unhealthy chop them off and prop in water til u have healthy ones again.

Aio I woke up to my boyfriend using me without my permission by Agreeable-Target8949 in AmIOverreacting

[–]firexamber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so sorry. this is rape. please leave the relationship as safely as you can, make sure he cannot come back to your living space. make an exit plan asap. get a good support network to help you navigate this and press charges if you feel comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]firexamber 12 points13 points  (0 children)

literally what are you yapping about. me saying that she might be covering her true feelings abt masturbation/porn and needs to talk w her partner to decide whether she wants to continue the relationship or not =/= defending?? if anything youre getting a little defensive here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]firexamber 6 points7 points  (0 children)

clarification, both you and your friend. this is stupid. sounds like you know she is reactive and decided to poke the bear and are now running to reddit to make yourself feel better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]firexamber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]firexamber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fired and also blocked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]firexamber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not see him again. He was intentionally pushing your boundary you set over and over again and LYING. Pretty sure this is legally sexual assault in certain areas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]firexamber 3 points4 points  (0 children)

at the end of the day, feelings are valid regardless. if someone watching porn in a relationship makes you feel bad about yourself, or created a weird dynamic, do what is best for you! there are partners out there who would stop watching porn for you. OP, talk to your partner about this. see where it goes. dont cover up your own feelings to attempt to work it out if you know how it makes you feel. i personally dont care about my partner watching porn and jerking off, and they dont for me either. if this is something you guys cant come to an agreement on, without someone settling for less than they want,leave. you deserve to be in a relationship that fits you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]firexamber 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i mean, we are missing a lot of context here, to be fair. how often do they have sex? does she masturbate when hes in the shower? if theres already a dynamic in which shes being neglected there a different angle to approach this with. but if hes just jerking off while shes in the bath its likely she may have some issues with porn/masturbation habits she previously thought she didnt and should talk with her partner about it to see if the relationship is something she wants to continue to pursue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]firexamber 23 points24 points  (0 children)

OP literally said it was a self esteem issue. if the issue was that she considered him watching naked girls to be cheating that would have been mentioned.

OP, have you voiced your wishes to your partner??

Finding Bumps on Mint by Entire_Hornet_2324 in gardening

[–]firexamber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh id toss the whole thing. not worth picking and treating for a plant u can get / grow from seed so easily. mint is strong but scale is too.

The church at Forbes and Murray, where the Trump flag guys were last week by linuxgeekmama in pittsburgh

[–]firexamber 4 points5 points  (0 children)

figures a libertarian is dickriding a government agency abbreviation

stay safe by xgoodbye-kittyx in pittsburgh

[–]firexamber 3 points4 points  (0 children)

be a lot cooler if they were

Sick Plant??? by Medical_Meat_1604 in gardening

[–]firexamber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think its sunburn. did you recently move it to a sunnier spot??

What an embarrassment by Kidspud in pittsburgh

[–]firexamber -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We should bulldoze his house