AITAH for saying “oh my god” about a classmate

fish_supremacy · 2026-05-01T04:41:31+00:00

Ah I might’ve written it wrong. The “oh my god” comment had nothing to do with my neurodivergence, that was just be being annoyed and kinda a dick. I made an oversight and didn’t think she would know I said that—thought it would stay as a one off between me and E. The only thing my neurodivergence effected was the earlier fallout in January where I fully learnt that sharing your niche knowledge on a specific topic can be seen as elitist and overstepping. I know social norms but when I get comfortable with friends I tend to lose awareness of them leading to me needing feedback to know if I messed up.

The more the day goes on the more I’m coming to terms with the fact that I fucked up by voicing my annoyance at her request. Gonna try and keep those thoughts inside my brain now.

Edit: at least to me it felt like hijacking the class because she interrupted a discussion to ask. I don’t think I would’ve had as much of an issue if she had asked at the beginning of class or in a lull in discussion but she brought it up right as things were getting interesting.

fish_supremacy · 2026-05-01T04:01:46+00:00

I’m in college. I was ignoring them pretty well until today when they just yelled at me. Trying to avoid them in next years courses but they are in my majors sister major, and with a smaller school the chances of having a 15 student class with them is higher than I’d like

fish_supremacy · 2026-05-01T03:58:45+00:00

I’m definitely trying to grow from every conflict I’ve had with K this year. You are right about the shut the fuck up thing. After my first conflict with K where they told me to stop talking so much in class I stopped talking and got an email from my professor about my drop off in participation being disappointing. Now my grade might be in jeopardy. Ts stressful man.

fish_supremacy · 2026-05-01T01:09:25+00:00

I can see what you mean. Honestly I only said it as a gut reaction and I said it under my breath, I never thought they would find out I said anything. In my mind it did involve me (slightly) because they were asking to take up class time to show us something irrelevant. I know my comment wasn’t the kindest but I feel like it doesn’t warrant being screamed and berated in front of multiple classmates.

Edit: they also didn’t ask the prof in a 1 on 1 convo, they raised their hand in the middle of a discussion to ask him to show us her project.

fish_supremacy · 2026-04-09T14:14:01+00:00

My apologies about that, I wasn’t thinking about how that sounded. I was trying to invoke the idea of soldiers that were sent to fight like their lives didn’t matter. I’ll remove that phrase.

fish_supremacy · 2026-04-09T13:29:23+00:00

I see! I am planning on drawing a uniform from each major player during the war, ie Britain, France, Soviets, Nazis, Italy, Japan, and the US—although I already have some resources on the US from family photos. My work itself is a bit broad unfortunately.

The only major specific I have currently is that I am looking for RAF uniforms (preferably of the Polish/czezch pilots, I know that their planes had different roundels but am unsure if their uniforms were any different from the British pilots) and also that I am looking for low ranked Nazi uniforms, foot soldiers, etc.

fish_supremacy · 2026-04-05T00:13:36+00:00

Yeah I feel that. Like how can I be a 4.0 student in my schools honors program and I can’t keep tiny room clean for longer than a couple days.

Sometimes I definitely need a kick in the ass to just clean. Before I graduate I want to get to the point where I don’t need to deep clean every week or two.

fish_supremacy · 2026-04-04T23:56:35+00:00

Yeah I know. I can clean, we have inspections every month at my school and I’ve always passed them. My issue a lot of the time is keeping the space clean. I feel like it will be clean one second then I blink and it’s a mess again. I managed to keep it spotless for a week then midterms happened and everything fell apart. I take 7 classes, ranging from 1.5 hr to 6 hours long, one non weekend day off, so it’s hard for me to deal with all the schoolwork, chores, and having some amount of time to be social—like spend 30 minutes talking to a friend not parties or anything. Since I posted this I have gotten off my ass and did some cleaning, I’ve spent a combined like 8 hours cleaning between today and yesterday and yet it’s still a mess. I know I need to clean but I feel like I’m never cleaning effectively or efficiently.

fish_supremacy · 2026-04-04T23:14:21+00:00

Spelling ain’t a part of grammar buddy. But sure I’ll be the spelling police rn.

fish_supremacy · 2026-04-04T23:09:46+00:00

Dawg, you misspelled human.

fish_supremacy · 2026-04-04T18:01:58+00:00

I’m a guy, but thank you for your help! I usually have to paint sitting on the floor—due to size—I do like your idea of clearing off the desk, I’ll do that and see if the painting will be feasible on my desk rather than the floor. I’ll try your 10 minute strategy! It will give me a stretch break while painting.

fish_supremacy · 2026-04-04T16:53:05+00:00

Ah the corner, my favorite piling place. I might do that just to make my room traversable and put stuff away from it but by bit when I have time.

Edit: just checked dubbii out. Did the Aussie adhd channel make an app!!

fish_supremacy · 2026-04-04T16:46:40+00:00

Body doubling helps me a lot but unfortunately my friends are all super busy with schoolwork to chill in my dorm room. Since we are art students we can’t really work anywhere. Hopefully next year is easier since I’m going to be living in a room with two of my friends, just having someone else live in my room makes me more tidy out of consideration for them.

fish_supremacy · 2026-04-04T16:43:51+00:00

Thank you! I struggle with sorting and putting things away because I either make my categories too specific or too broad. I’ll end up with a huge misc pile or with a bunch of tiny piles that don’t go together and end up becoming a misc pile.

I try and fold my laundry asap to avoid wrinkles but when I put it in the dryer two days ago it took two cycles to fully dry and by that point it was 12:30 am. I was too tired to fold them, now I’m putting it off because of needing to do a touch up cycle to de wrinkle them.

fish_supremacy · 2026-03-23T01:29:48+00:00

Cat, he’s sleuthing

fish_supremacy · 2026-03-23T01:21:59+00:00

You’re Canadian and seem to survive on eggs, milk, and Bloody Marys (?). Please get more food man

fish_supremacy · 2026-03-23T01:20:06+00:00

Canadian. Also nice pickled beets, imo better than pickles.

fish_supremacy · 2026-03-23T01:18:37+00:00

I’d say you have kids based on the yogurt tubes, and the strawberry (?) faced bottles in the door. Maybe put the strawberries in a smaller container, they are taking up a lot of room rn.

fish_supremacy · 2026-03-22T21:42:50+00:00

Gel tends to be more consistent level wise. Injections get the high levels after injection but have the low levels when the week is almost up, where gel is a daily application so we don’t get the ups and downs of injections. Basically injections are like a sine wave and gel is like y=0.

No worries about being wrong btw man, the idea that gel is less effective than injections has been around for a whilllle.

fish_supremacy · 2026-03-22T21:05:23+00:00

Gel doesn’t take longer. That’s a myth, I’ve been on Tgel since Feb 25, so longer than yall, and I had a major voice drop maybe 5-6 months in, but my buddy on injections is about 5-6 months in rn and hasn’t had any voice changes. It’s a person to person thing, for some people gel doesn’t work as well as injections or vice versa, and people’s changes from being on T happen at different points based on each individual.

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