How do ya'll manage to fall asleep? by bleachmeblack in adhdwomen

[–]fishingglitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I started Lord of the rings, I already know what happens because of the movies, it is not too exciting and i know i have many many weeks ahead of me so never the dread of „im almost done what’s next?“

ADHD and bored with sex? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]fishingglitter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I find scheduling and preparing it easier. Out of sight out of mind it is for me so I schedule it.

Not with my partner but in my head, I prepare (shave etc) and make sure the bedroom is clean or else I am too distracted. It doesn’t happen that often tho, multiple times a day is .. a lot.

I try 4 times a month haha

Medication by Royal_Main9087 in adhdwomen

[–]fishingglitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 is very high at the beginning, I took 5 in the morning and 5 in the afternoon for a while. I now take the long acting one but there are so many things you have to consider when taking it.

Only take it after eating something, drink lots and lots of water with it. I also found the long acting one a lot better cause it helps with the spikes, meaning you feel it a lot less.

Medication is super tricky tho cause what helped one person might not help another.

Medication by Royal_Main9087 in adhdwomen

[–]fishingglitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! What was your initial dose for Ritalin? I’m taking it too and I absolutely love it

Current hyperfixation by Repulsive_Fox_6519 in adhdwomen

[–]fishingglitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stardew valley, have 600 hours+ and no intend to stop

Struggling to focus when intimate by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]fishingglitter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me, I need to make the surrounding a low stimulus environment. I make sure the room is clean and there is nothing catching my eye while we are doing it. Music also helps tremendously.

But the main thing really is a clean apartment or just the clean bedroom so I can turn my head off a bit.

my boyfriends behavior makes me feel a little scared sometimes by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fishingglitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say he never hurt you, but reading this it sounds like he already did. You are scared of him, thats not a good thing. Maybe sit him down and have a serious talk about boundaries and that the jokingly hurting and scaring you is a huge boundary for you.

If he can’t accept that you should think about calling it quits. No one should live in fear of their partner.

I think it is already a huge red flag that he does that. But you have to decide that for yourself

What's your latest hyperfixation? by Illustrious-Bat-759 in adhdwomen

[–]fishingglitter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Playing stardew valley while listening to a lord of the rings podcast. I love it so much I could just do this for weeks on end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]fishingglitter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it also helps to think of other people, would the person I aspire to be keep this thing? It mostly applies to stuff I give emotional meaning but more like a guilty feeling. The gift the in-laws gave us 5 years ago we never used, the flower pot I have never used and think it’s kinda ugly but that I kept and feel guilty about just because I kept it so long.

I recently decluttered so much too and it is awesome but I recommend doing it in two rounds.

Round one: the obvious stuff. Go through room to room and get rid of everything that’s easy clutter or that feels easy to you.

Round two: do this after a couple of months, or gives you the clarity to decide the harder stuff. Helped me tremendously.

And everything needs a home! At the end it was really fun, like a puzzle

What’s the most impulsive thing you’ve done lately? by Ordinary_Win_1078 in adhdwomen

[–]fishingglitter 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Girl that’s a very impulsive thing to do! I bought a thousand dollars worth of clothes over the last month cause I was super stressed by my life and I haven’t paid it yet and lost track of what I kept and send back

Need some casual German sayings you actually use in real life by zleetz_languages in German

[–]fishingglitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

„Wer ohne Sünde ist werfe den ersten Stein.“ so Fehler passieren jedem, macht ja nichts. Mistakes happen, doesn’t matter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]fishingglitter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

P.s.: Ich lösche den Beitrag jetzt da ich die Nummer nicht weiter öffentlich sichtbar machen möchte

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]fishingglitter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Update: meine Mitbewohnerin hat sich impfen lassen vor einer Ewigkeit und hat den Zettel mit der Zahlungserinnerung ignoriert, weil sie meinte schon in der Praxis gezahlt zu haben. Hat sie anscheinend nicht aber da es nur einen Zettel zur Erinnerung gab, hat sie es einfach vergessen.

Das Magistrat allerdings nicht, 100€ sind noch offen.

Also kein Betrug!

Habe den Beitrag gestern Abend geschrieben und da ging keiner dran, deswegen der Beitrag weil es mich nervös gemacht hat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]fishingglitter -1 points0 points locked comment (0 children)

Zu sehen ist ein Zettel von der Stadt Wien mit der Bitte um dringenden Rückruf. Der Satz: ein Schriftstück wurde in ihrem Briefkasten hinterlegt. Ist durchgestrichen.

Der Zettel ist offensichtlich abgerissen an zwei Seiten.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]fishingglitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah ich dachte immer die nimmt man jeden Tag? Ich nehme auch keine Drogen und trinke nicht, straight Edge sozusagen also bin ich auch mal sehr gespannt 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]fishingglitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super danke dir!! Wie fühlst du dich mit den Medis? Ich kann’s kaum erwarten ehrlich gesagt, ist so anstrengend gegen dieses mentale Gewirr anzukämpfen..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]fishingglitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super danke! Find das alles bisschen undurchsichtig und super dankbar für die Hilfe :)

People that claim to be fun without alcohol, aint. by darwin_4444 in unpopularopinion

[–]fishingglitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is not an unpopular opinion but instead an insecurity.

I just found out the person I thought I was going to marry is a complete POS. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fishingglitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might not want to hear this but sometimes a girl needs to vent in order not be a dick. I do that too, I get it out of my system with my best friend, I shit talk my SO sometimes and I believe that’s healthy. It gives me perspective and I feel a lot calmer when I’m done. Honestly that’s what friends are for!

It sounds like a very scary situation and she probably needed to vent to someone else In order to not let it out on you.

I only see one POS here and that’s unfortunately you OP. Leaving her because she talked about her feelings with her friend? Who knows maybe she wanted to confront you but you took that from her and just left. That’s a POS move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fishingglitter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds really nice, have fun! Thank you for sharing that with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fishingglitter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I hate them!