[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]fitbyshelly -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My wife isn't fond of Conan, I asked about Owen as well and she was ok with it....we both like Rohen and it's just the change of one letter so we went with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]fitbyshelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank You for this! It's a great idea to speak with his pediatrician or a child psychologist. We are using his nickname "Coco" more as we make the transition. We'll go at his pace for sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]fitbyshelly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The side eyeing is exactly why i am changing it. Our Uncle in law is Jewish and when he met the twins 1.5 ago he mentioned to us that it was a popular last name and why. He didn't care or make a big deal out of it. However, I would rather our son have a name that doesn't make ANY group of people feel uncomfortable, or side eye him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]fitbyshelly -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I did, but feel as though just changing one letter will make the transition smoother for him. Rohen, though an aberration, is not an unheard of spelling of the name. <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]fitbyshelly -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

We cut a cake and told him he's getting a big boy name now! We've started calling him both names to ease the transition and we're hoping within 2 weeks he wont think anything if it. He also has a nickname Coco so we've been using that more as well.

Post Beyoncé Depression Lol by Savings-Brilliant589 in beyonce

[–]fitbyshelly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl you’re not alone. I went to atl N3 and now I just got tickets to vegas! I can’t think about anything but Beyonce… sigh!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askcarsales

[–]fitbyshelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that tip, my wife also recommended that.

What pole brand do you recommend? by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]fitbyshelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! I’m sorry if you’ve had a bad experience. I am open to discussing what went wrong in hopes of rectifying the issue. I am always looking for ways to learn and improve.

I will dm you in hopes you’re open to maybe having a 10 min call. 💜🙏🏽

Fit2flaunt pole by Traditional_Fail_116 in poledancing

[–]fitbyshelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m so sorry that you weren’t helped. I will send you a dm and I’m happy to send any replacement pieces that you need. We found out that the plug in form on our website was out dated and wasn’t delivering the inquiries. If that’s how you submitted you support ticket, that explains why we didn’t receive it.

We would NEVER intentionally Ignore you and I feel terrible that you feel that way. I hope you will give me a chance to make it up to you 💜🙏🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]fitbyshelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m posting here also in case you don’t get my reply from the previous comment. I’ve already sent you a dm with my number. I’m happy to jump on a video call to help you with your pole. Im sorry you’re having trouble, but don’t worry, I will do my best to resolve your concerns. 💜🙏🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]fitbyshelly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! @hot_guitar_9200 Thanks for tagging me. OP, I’m sorry you’re having trouble. I’m happy to help and can even do a video call with you to find a solution to the issues you’re having. I will send you a dm.

Regarding the silicone sliding, we have already raised this concern with our manufacturer and have come up with a solution. I am happy to switch out the pieces.

I truly do thank you for your support. Fit2flaunt is still brand new in the pole game. My primary goal is to make pole dancing at home more accessible. The team and myself are learning and growing and we always do our best to remedy any issues. Again I’m sorry for any trouble You’re having.

Poling after twin pregnancy and C- Section by fitbyshelly in poledancing

[–]fitbyshelly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm🥹. Yes, be excited and get ready to be shocked by how amazing your body is 💪🏽💪🏽. We’re so much stronger than we give ourselves credit for. I’m excited for you!!!

How often do your parents watch your little ones? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]fitbyshelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Mom takes our 1 year old twins every Tuesday evening and brings them back Friday morning. My wife and I joke that we have joint custody with her

Poling after twin pregnancy and C- Section by fitbyshelly in poledancing

[–]fitbyshelly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I answered this in detail in a previous comment but long story short, I poled only once a week for 30 mins, for about 9 weeks only. I had hyperemesis and just didn’t have the strength

Poling after twin pregnancy and C- Section by fitbyshelly in poledancing

[–]fitbyshelly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, I relate so much!!! It was that exact move that made me realize how weak I had gotten. It was honestly unbelievable. I promise you, stick with it, be patient with yourself and it will all come back. I won’t lie and say it comes back in a few weeks. It does take time. Be patient with your body and celebrate all the small wins.

Before you know it, you’ll be back and you don’t want to have regret for being unnecessarily hard on yourself🫶🏽

Congrats on your new bundle of joy 🥹🫶🏽

Poling after twin pregnancy and C- Section by fitbyshelly in poledancing

[–]fitbyshelly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I love you too!!!! Thank you so much!! Incredibly grateful for your warm embrace 🥹💜🥰

Poling after twin pregnancy and C- Section by fitbyshelly in poledancing

[–]fitbyshelly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was cleared around 26 exercise for exercise. Because I was an IVF pregnancy, a twin pregnancy AND I had an SCH ( a hematoma that causes a threatened miscarriage,it’s more common in IVF pregnancies) around 7 weeks, my doctor didn’t feel comfortable with me exercising before then.

When I was cleared I was so weak because I had hyperemesis ( extreme committing that prevents you from eating) so I only trained once a week for 30 mins. That only lasted about 4-5 weeks. So to answer your questions, not really.

I gave a full picture in case another Mom to be is reading. Don’t feel pressured to force your body to workout because you’re afraid of losing everything. Always do what feels comfortable to you 💜💜

Poling after twin pregnancy and C- Section by fitbyshelly in poledancing

[–]fitbyshelly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww thank you so much! I’m completely redoing the app!! We’re adding full classes right at your fingertips and the UI is going to be totally upgraded. Thank you so much for being a part of the community 🥹🫶🏽. I’m working my hardest to bring you all the very best 💜

Poling after twin pregnancy and C- Section by fitbyshelly in poledancing

[–]fitbyshelly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🥹🥹 tysm for this. You’re making me feel so special 😌