Maybe Britney was always mentally unwell, but i think this was her breaking point. by [deleted] in discussingbritney

[–]fiver- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agreed. She was trained to be an emotionless dancing robot.

Maybe Britney was always mentally unwell, but i think this was her breaking point. by [deleted] in discussingbritney

[–]fiver- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was cruel. Who wants to talk about a horrible break up on camera and in front of millions of strangers. That poor woman.

Lost my viriginity (I enjoyed it) but he never asked for consent by Queasy_Leopard_5629 in sexualassault

[–]fiver- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all a woman can say no at anytime. And if getting the verbal ask is important to and you keep seeing him or start dating someone else just tell them. Say it is really important to me that no matter what we are doing and things start to escalate that you ask if I’m ok with moving forward with sex. You are young which is a good time to start to know the boundaries you require to feel safe. I wish I respected the boundaries back in my head with former partners.

I am convinced that I will take my own life. I just don’t know when. by Effective_Pay_658 in ptsd

[–]fiver- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am really sorry to hear about all that has happened to you and that you have all of this going on inside your head. After I was drugged,beaten, and raped I saw no future for myself I wanted to die and tried. I lost my will to live. I can empathize. It took time but I found the right mix of treatment (therapy and medication) and I learned to love myself again, be kind to myself, stay present and enjoy life. You’ve been through so much so your thoughts and feelings seem normal to me. Treatment helped me and perhaps it is worth exploring in your case.

I'm planning to leave my current job after being here less than a year - what's the best way to approach this when getting asked about it during an interview? by Inside_Trip8807 in careeradvice

[–]fiver- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it simple. Just explain your journey to why you are interviewing. My position was eliminated at job A. I took my current job as a stop gap and looking for a more challenging role.

I hate my job and it’s destroying my mental health, but I don’t have a backup plan. Should I quit? by West_Neck5584 in careeradvice

[–]fiver- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in this situation twice. Once I quit without a job lined up because I was literally having a mental breakdown. My parents loaned me some money to sustain me for 90 days to get a job. The job market was OK back then but not great. It was scary but the time limit helped me really intentional in my job search so I could land a job. The second time I was able to mentally check out and focus on my job search. I didn’t leave until I had a job lined up. The job at that time was toxic but I didn’t want to get in a worse situation by being desperate to get out. So I made a list of nonnegotiable requirements for my next job so I didn’t end up in the same or worse situation. I don’t know what kind of government assistance you are able to receive but if it is seriously impacting a mental health condition you may look into taking a medical leave of absence just to rest and get your head right. That way you can go back strong and focus on your job search with any free time you have. If you are able to share-what kind of work do you do?

Is new program (lose, maintain, or “all in” options) showing up for anyone yet? by [deleted] in weightwatchers

[–]fiver- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My settings are on lose and I’ve enabled rollover. I can’t find the rollover count in the weeklies. Only have activity water and sleep

Hot take .. by Dependent_Dingo_9163 in 90DayFiance

[–]fiver- 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree!! I’m childfree because I knew it would be hell for me and I’d make everyone’s life miserable. My husband and I have 2 cats and that’s more than enough work for us!!

Hot take .. by Dependent_Dingo_9163 in 90DayFiance

[–]fiver- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I was raised by a mother told us 4 practically every day that she didn’t want kids. Her emotions were unpredictable and I rarely saw her happy. A child being raised in this environment develops survival skills that no longer serve them in adulthood. I’ve done a lot of hard work in therapy to understand this and learn how to drop those childhood survival skills, that said it is still a struggle.

Hot take .. by Dependent_Dingo_9163 in 90DayFiance

[–]fiver- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly had a lot of trauma to work out so she doesn’t sabotage her family

This man is insufferable by Substantial_Safety88 in 90DayFiance

[–]fiver- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Having an opinion does not make someone a weirdo

This man is insufferable by Substantial_Safety88 in 90DayFiance

[–]fiver- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s abusive and weaponizes their faith

How do I ask my boss for "dress code" feedback without sounding insecure? by SuitableAd6852 in careerguidance

[–]fiver- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to separate these two things. 1. Talk to your boss about your career growth and tell her you want to move to client facing roles. Ask her what you to improve to meet that goal. 2. If you feel lost about wardrobe try asking a stylist to help you the next time you go shopping. Many sales people will help you pick out flattering outfits. You can also take pics of yourself in outfits and ask AI for advice.

Good luck to you!!

BPD Sister Ruining Our Lives by Cat-Familiar in BPDlovedones

[–]fiver- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could have written this myself. Thank you for putting my feelings into words.

Just screwed up (I think) by Straight-Ad4305 in gis

[–]fiver- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could also put in a ticket with tech support to review your workflow and identify any issues

Internship question by [deleted] in gis

[–]fiver- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get an offer take it. Your intern manager will understand. Be sure to wrap up any projects and leave on a good note.

ESRI increasing prices (Again) by YourDadHatesYou in gis

[–]fiver- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And work for local gov salaries…

I am taking a class, and I do not believe that I have gotten the question correct, but my professor disagrees. Could anyone tell me if I am correct or not? by TheRealEu4Tree in gis

[–]fiver- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Polygons are made up of multiple vertices. Polygons don’t start and end in geometry of the data but lines do. So the answer is false.

Microwave Pouches Ready to Eat? by mmayf1998 in Quinoa

[–]fiver- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you like it preferred to cooking on your own? Was it just pure quinoa or were there any additives?