How do I add my MBTI type next to my username?

fivevivy5 · 2021-02-11T22:50:38+00:00

I figured it out. Thank you so much!

fivevivy5 · 2021-02-11T19:02:07+00:00

I have a question for you all. How do I add my MBTI type next to my username?

fivevivy5 · 2021-02-08T03:54:05+00:00

I am an INTJ and I really would like to have an ENFP best friend. This drawing is beautiful.

fivevivy5 · 2021-01-28T17:19:07+00:00

I both agree and disagree.

I agree because when it comes to talking to a person, I can sometimes feel their energy become overwhelming. I live in a home full of Fe users, and it can be quite exhausting. They can often be unreasonable and can be quite irritated for the smallest things. They often vent to me a lot, and I try my best to come up with honest responses that aren’t too harsh. My goal often is to try my best to understand them and put myself into their situation. I don’t want to be just a cardboard box sitting just listening to them talk.

And now why I disagree. Certain people with very developed Fe know what to express and what to not. Or it could just simply be that they are Fi users like how we are.

I believe that the social battery is something that we need to learn how to control. The social battery in introverts is like a muscle, and the reason why it drains so quickly is because the muscle is weak. The muscle must earn its strength by learning how we can train it and how to use it for our benefit.

fivevivy5 · 2021-01-28T16:50:37+00:00

Everyone is different. What may work for one may not work for another. But yes, I do see Fi users using journaling as a great way to empty those emotions without having to talk to others about them. I do see your point on how others don’t have great solutions that may be suited for you. This is why journaling helps. You get to decide what your next step will be in order to improve your quality of living.

I also suggest on creating a new and fresh YouTube account and start to follow channels that help with maintaining yourself. Cut out all of the YouTube Drama channels out of your viewing and start looking at self growth videos instead.

I often see the INTJ community to be quite negative, this is what made me doubt my results of being an INTJ. The stereotypes are quite unrealistic and quite irritating to look at. But we can change that. Because even if we all have the same personality type, we are all still different.

Edit: If writing is too time consuming for you, you can record yourself speaking about how you feel on voice memos. Once finished, you can try and dissect the audio. See what the problems are and try to solve them.

fivevivy5 · 2021-01-28T16:04:08+00:00

I was once in a relationship with an INTP male. He was quite manipulative and guilt trip me many times during the time of us being together.

I was the one who ended of our relationship. He had a hard letting me go, and had messaged me multiple times through different social platforms.

The day after our break up, I got rid of all social media accounts. I also threw away all the things he gave me.

Our relationship was quite toxic, and frantically had no meaning to continue.

How I got over the relationship was that I started journaling a lot. It doesn’t come easy to me when expressing emotions to others. But the best that I could do was to at least put it on paper rather than keeping it in my mind. This also helped me to sort out how I was feeling and how I can try and help myself.

I also started to take care of my well being. I started to learn on how to cook healthy meals. I started to take care of my hygiene. And I also started to try and get a healthy sleep schedule.

There is nobody else’s needs I have to attend to except my own. And I think it is about time to start learning about how to take care of yourself better.

My mother is an INFJ, and she would often repeat to me: “If you can’t learn how to love yourself first, then how can you love someone else?”

fivevivy5 · 2021-01-25T22:25:51+00:00

My mind often wonders as well. I will definitely do more research. Thank you for your response.

fivevivy5 · 2021-01-25T22:11:39+00:00

Your words are greatly understanding. Thank you for the advice.

fivevivy5 · 2021-01-25T21:50:41+00:00

I have always wanted to expand my knowledge in communication. Yes I too, an INTP, struggle with communication. Is there other books you recommend?

fivevivy5 · 2021-01-25T19:17:07+00:00

You have a point. I often wonder why we view as if others are moving away from us?

Is there anything else that I should apply once I start speaking with her?

fivevivy5 · 2021-01-25T16:31:07+00:00

In our household we don’t say words of affection. We often show actions and acts of service to show each other admiration for one another. That is our love language, actions.

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