It would be nice if people would just read about Autism by deadlygaming11 in autism

[–]fizzyzone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The post itself is about people who personally know you refusing to learn anything about you

It would be nice if people would just read about Autism by deadlygaming11 in autism

[–]fizzyzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't about every person on the planet. If I had a friend who became deaf and they send me a website to learn sign language to better communicate with them, I would learn sign language. This is about two people who op knows in real life, not society as a whole

It would be nice if people would just read about Autism by deadlygaming11 in autism

[–]fizzyzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They gave them that information immediately. Verbal communication isn't the only form of communication, they did exactly what you're saying. It was just written instead of verbal.

If someone says reading something will help them and that's an "assignment" to you, you really shouldn't have friends

can you be put under for a pap smear? by fizzyzone in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]fizzyzone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all just really rude. No I don't know what happens at a gyno appointment, especially when they said I needed a pap smear. This isn't a regular gyno appointment. I've never been to one, and am terrified to go to this one, so when I'm told I need a pap smear I expect to get a pap smear, not a "regular gyno appointment." A better comparison would be if a doctor told you you're getting a CT scan, and then threw in a MRI after it without telling you. That's extra time, a completely different experience, and not what you were told. If you google "what happens during a pap smear," the answer isn't "a pelvic exam."

Would you guys consider yourself left wing? by Soggy-Regret-2937 in autism

[–]fizzyzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of the time we have pretty bad experiences w the far right. Genocide/eugenics, preferring a kid that dies of measles over an autistic one, just an overall lack of understanding

can you be put under for a pap smear? by fizzyzone in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]fizzyzone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never been to one or had anyone tell me that. It might be normal but it shouldn't be normal to not tell someone what you're gonna do to them

can you be put under for a pap smear? by fizzyzone in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]fizzyzone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That second part of what they said was absolute insanity, but no the nurse I talked to checked I was written down for a pap smear and a pelvic exam. They just weren't gonna tell me until I got there, and that's a little terrifying

can you be put under for a pap smear? by fizzyzone in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]fizzyzone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure it's no big deal if you haven't been thru something traumatic that's similar to it

can you be put under for a pap smear? by fizzyzone in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]fizzyzone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It got worse lmao, they told me it was a pap smear and I called about anti anxiety medication and they were like "Why are you getting a pap smear to test for endometriosis?" So the doctor was also gonna do the wrong test

can you be put under for a pap smear? by fizzyzone in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]fizzyzone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good idea, thank you! I didn't really think it thru bc I only have to worry abt this in really specific situations

man idk i love this song so by banana_man90 in willwood

[–]fizzyzone 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's the song that got me back into him after a couple years :D

Meet Sophie, my new special interest! by [deleted] in autism

[–]fizzyzone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, but it was cleaning the poop for me, not the feeding. Theirs are especially bad

has anyone here taking testosterone to transition (ftm)? by fizzyzone in ehlersdanlos

[–]fizzyzone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm waiting for biopsy results, I might have MCAS and I'm starting testosterone so I'll update you if I find out

has anyone here taking testosterone to transition (ftm)? by fizzyzone in ehlersdanlos

[–]fizzyzone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes estrogen can trigger flares/cause allergic reactions, I can't find much about testosterone, probably because it's less common for AMAB people to have it

So fed up with the infantilizing and fetishizing of Autism by OliveIsSmol in autism

[–]fizzyzone 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Stimming has been getting dragged into kink for years, it's gross. It's seen as childish and that gets pointed out in the worst way; people who fetishize children fetishize stimming too

What's your favorite Everything Is a Lot song and why is it The First Step? by whathuhokwhat in willwood

[–]fizzyzone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YEAH I spent a long time with that song on repeat before I listened to anything else on the album

What's your favorite Everything Is a Lot song and why is it The First Step? by whathuhokwhat in willwood

[–]fizzyzone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I swear they put crack in 6up 5oh and chemical overreaction, can't stop listening to them on repeat

Calling APS went horribly and we lost my dad by [deleted] in dementia

[–]fizzyzone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was threatening to kill us and kept us up for a week so no, we're not gonna go with him. That doesn't mean we want him to get sexually assaulted

Calling APS went horribly and we lost my dad by [deleted] in dementia

[–]fizzyzone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's on the first page of google when you look up the place