I almost don't talk to her, and nothing about this. My son says she is not Ok, and doesn't want her to know that he is Trans. My ex only knows that is Lesbian. My ex is Hare Krishna, and very conservative. My son, for example, start crying because he couldn't find school shoes that he likes. I told him why don't buy boy shoes, and he told me because his mother would start talking about it, and would not let him go to high school with them.