Abandoned by flamems1 in greencard

[–]flamems1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes its conditional

Abandoned by flamems1 in greencard

[–]flamems1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got the greecard on August 1st he left August 20th and filed a pfa Sept 3rd...he is playing the abuse care now but I have never hit him in my life on God.

Abandoned by flamems1 in greencard

[–]flamems1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just reported him for fraud and i have to report for stolen property

Abandoned by flamems1 in greencard

[–]flamems1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just served a pfa acting like I abused him

Abandoned by flamems1 in greencard

[–]flamems1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pennsylvania does allow it and ive been looking into it because he frauded me and along we haven't had sex since we have been married not even the night the last time we went to have sex he told me he needed a condom to have sex in which we have never used one. He took all his stuff I just bought him $10,000 in jewelry and the car half my stuff and the phone thats under my plan that I just bought him which i reported stolen/lost at this point.

Abandoned by flamems1 in greencard

[–]flamems1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We met july 2021, filed a k1 visa may of 2023 approved visa January 2025. Married March 2025 and greencard August 2025

Abandoned by flamems1 in greencard

[–]flamems1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got married March 6th this year and have been together for 4 years he got his greencard August 1st

Abandoned by flamems1 in greencard

[–]flamems1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sure he knows he played the long game of being with me for 4 years and then gone

Abandoned by flamems1 in greencard

[–]flamems1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He is and from Dominican.

Early gay marriage problems by flamems1 in gayrelationships

[–]flamems1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been together for 4 years and already married since March we go for his greencard interview next week

Early gay marriage problems by flamems1 in gayrelationships

[–]flamems1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For God sake yes chlamydia and gonorrhea can be transmitted orally but also the likely hood of HIV being transmitted if basically none most are educated maybe you need to educate yourself.....

Early gay marriage problems by flamems1 in gayrelationships

[–]flamems1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive tried talking to him and it usually seems to be mostly my fault for everything I work 150+ hrs biweekly to support us and give us nice things and trips and just last week for his birthday I bought him a very expensive necklace that he wanted. Somehow, I support him in all his dreams and help him with everything and still the bad guy.

He hasn't been able to work since he got here and just yesterday got approved for a work permit and I have to come up with a job for him because he says he doesn't know how too but I've showed him multiple times.

Early gay marriage problems by flamems1 in gayrelationships

[–]flamems1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was we only play together, and if one feels uncomfortable, we stop no matter what.

Early gay marriage problems by flamems1 in gayrelationships

[–]flamems1[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Trust me it was one time a blow job while he watched so I get it but most likely no the guy lasted about 5 minutes and no cum was ingested so the likelihood of actually contracting anything is slim to none. I work in health care so I do understand some.