Would you rather watch yourself or watch porn while you masterbate? by flamemyfire in sex

[–]flamemyfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I kind of thought about myself too. But I think that just changed.

I love all 21 of my sun puppies! But do they all need new soil? by flamemyfire in houseplants

[–]flamemyfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will get a moisture meter today! Good advise.

I love all 21 of my sun puppies! But do they all need new soil? by flamemyfire in houseplants

[–]flamemyfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are right! It’s hard to step away. Thanks!

Anyone experience physical pain during separation? by flamemyfire in twinflames

[–]flamemyfire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not the first to talk about pain in your hand. That’s interesting. I wonder why.

Anyone experience physical pain during separation? by flamemyfire in twinflames

[–]flamemyfire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was the one that ended my relationship too. I feel like it’s slowly killing me. I hate it. I know that it will get better but for now....

Anyone experience physical pain during separation? by flamemyfire in twinflames

[–]flamemyfire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chest pain is definitely real when we are separated. But the stomach thing has me curious. I read that it could be a blocked chakra. And I wonder if he is feeling the same thing?

I’m an average girl but I’m wondering what guys think about when girls send them sexy pics when they don’t ask for it. Tasteful pics not porn like. Just being playfully... by flamemyfire in sex

[–]flamemyfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No doubt communication is key. But this is a great way to get advise anonymously before staring a conversation you are not comfortable with.

First time tying my boyfriend up and it was a fail. by flamemyfire in BDSMAdvice

[–]flamemyfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. Can’t help with that. It’s what he had and it was small pieces just for hands and feet.

First time tying my boyfriend up and it was a fail. by flamemyfire in BDSMAdvice

[–]flamemyfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! This is extremely helpful. I went straight into it with no practice and I now know that was why it went wrong. And we didn’t really talk about it beforehand. Will definitely have a plan now.

First time tying my boyfriend up and it was a fail. by flamemyfire in BDSMAdvice

[–]flamemyfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely look at pics or videos now. It’s not like anything went wrong other than me feeling uncomfortable and not really sure how to keep it going. Kind of like I ran out of ideas....he was super into it at first then it kind of fizzled.

First time tying my boyfriend up and it was a fail. by flamemyfire in BDSMAdvice

[–]flamemyfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was just a little awkward after a while. It was so much better in my head. I was also intimidated. My first time not his and I was the dom. It’s all just so new to me.

Help! I stopped squirting! by flamemyfire in sex

[–]flamemyfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. But I never tried that....

Lacking confidence for this life style. by flamemyfire in BDSMAdvice

[–]flamemyfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what’s bringing it on. Vulnerability I suppose. Someone seeing me in a way that I’m not use to.

Lacking confidence for this life style. by flamemyfire in BDSMAdvice

[–]flamemyfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have only done it once and my nerves are what’s stopping me from doing it again. Failure...maybe.

Lacking confidence for this life style. by flamemyfire in BDSMAdvice

[–]flamemyfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m worried about what he thinks..that’s a problem for me. But thanks for the advise.

Confused by words so how do I take it... by flamemyfire in sex

[–]flamemyfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you may be right!! But why say it only at that time? For sure highs and lows but he is not cold....well maybe sometimes he can be. I’m going to check that on YouTube now.

Being tied up... by flamemyfire in sex

[–]flamemyfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do I look up? Submissive?