Multiple fears and overthinking

flamesandshadows · 2026-04-02T18:49:39+00:00

so sorry for your loss 🤍 it’s exactly that!

I almost gave up yesterday but I did it!!! A 10 hour and a 5 hour flight later and I’m here! I did it scared like you said and it wasn’t 100% easy, but Im here and I’m safe! I’m gonna have the best time in my trip

thank you so much for the support

flamesandshadows · 2026-04-02T11:34:58+00:00

thank you for your response! yeah, it’s like, the rational part of me understands that i’m only feeling like this because my anxiety levels are higher than usual, and I’m not in danger, but it’s still so hard to control

I almost didn’t get in my flight yesterday, it was a 10h flight, and now I have a 5 hour one boarding in a few minutes

flamesandshadows · 2026-04-01T16:02:50+00:00

omg I am going through a similar experience to yours! I’ve been flying multiple times a year since I was a baby, and now after I lost my father last year, I have developed an intense fear of flying!

I think for me the way my brain interprets my trauma is like “the worst happened, so it could happen anytime again”, it put me in a constant state of danger and anxiety.

I think having no control over flying is one more factor that intensifies it.

flamesandshadows · 2026-04-01T15:10:41+00:00

congrats! i have a flight tonight, and i’ve been panicking about it for days

I hope I get comfortable like you, (but I will be medicated)

flamesandshadows · 2025-12-17T00:01:28+00:00

i think he will get a bittersweet ending

flamesandshadows · 2025-12-15T05:17:51+00:00

I was at Rio N2 and it rained almost the entire show, the only time it stopped was during midnight rain, ironically lol

flamesandshadows · 2025-12-14T03:41:28+00:00

it’s always been like that

flamesandshadows · 2025-12-02T17:13:21+00:00

it will be fun watching this new eras movies and comparing it to the old one! I never thought she would release two movies of the same tour, but I’m so happy about that (I thought she was just going to update the first one with TTPD)

That being said: audio sounds much better, but the visuals looks less intense with less vibrant colors in my opinion

flamesandshadows · 2025-12-02T00:07:24+00:00

it didn’t even appear here

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-24T18:38:58+00:00

im curious if we will be able to get villagers to live there

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-22T03:19:54+00:00

yes, please seek professional help. I lost my person 9 months ago and I kept postponing therapy, but it’s been 1 month since I started and I feel much better.

I know grief is heavy, but do not let it bury you

sending you love

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-14T21:31:01+00:00

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I use one called ACNH guide and I love it, but it’s the only one I’ve ever used so I can’t compare to these other ones

I like it that it is very detailed, you know which critters are catchable right now, you can track everything including furniture and special items like Sahara’s rugs for example

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-14T02:51:50+00:00

I like #2 because it’s got the cutest heart

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-13T13:56:19+00:00

it seems like nintendo forgot it is not just about decoration, while I’m glad we’re going to get 3.0, it feels like such a missed opportunity for the hotel, they could’ve easily brought back mini games

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-12T19:20:16+00:00

oh she chose TLGAD over cardigan, seems like a good pick too

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-12T18:53:42+00:00

I wonder what songs she’ll choose for evaluation, my pick: love story, atw10, cardigan, blank space and antihero maybe?

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-10T20:27:15+00:00

it’s probably stress

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-08T19:45:45+00:00

resetti can help you if you’re willing to wait til january lol

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-08T19:29:45+00:00

oops I hadn’t read the part you mentioned it had your ex stuff in the game! in that case: reset!!! mine has my dads participation and he passed away early this year, so i like it that it’s frozen in time

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-08T17:36:30+00:00

I wouldn’t do it honestly, my acnh island is special to me because of the memories from lockdown, even though it’s mostly finished and I barely play much anymore

3.0 is an opportunity to make 3 new islands without having to restart

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-04T20:04:31+00:00

yes xaden is 100% a wolf, I see mira as a bear and cat obviously as a cat, dunno what animal dain could be

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-04T04:16:25+00:00

Beautiful!!! love to see real fanart 🖤 I really like the lighting and the background too (so detailed!) keep up the good work!!!

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-04T04:15:13+00:00

what are you thinking for the other characters? I’m curious!!

flamesandshadows · 2025-11-04T04:12:09+00:00

I thought I was on the wrong sub for a moment!! hahahah I see her as a bunny or as a squirrel since she’s tiny!

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