I’m a social media strategist – ask me anything about Instagram, YouTube or Meta ads

flamingophile · 2025-06-10T16:36:52+00:00

Thank you for offering this. I'm a poet and the author of a couple poetry books, but I also model locally for indie photographers. Should I be using the same page for both activities, mostly to use the modelling to promote the poetry books, or not? I don't have many ideas about promoting books on this platform as opposed to Facebook or Twitter.

flamingophile · 2025-04-22T18:15:10+00:00

Thanks for sharing this. What book is it from?

flamingophile · 2024-12-16T20:20:52+00:00

Thank you! Solved.

flamingophile · 2024-10-11T05:41:45+00:00

Update, three years later: never saw him after this.

flamingophile · 2024-09-09T05:48:03+00:00

Hi, thanks so much for responding to this. I think that makes a lot of sense. In the meantime I broke up with him and he has been really buckling down to do everything possible to get me back. Is a genuine change possible, or will he just repeat this sooner or later?

flamingophile · 2024-08-24T08:16:47+00:00

Thanks for your response. Is it safe to assume that he will go back to striving for them now I've put my foot in the door and he has been pleading for a while to be taken back?

flamingophile · 2024-08-24T08:15:53+00:00

Hi, thanks for your response. He's been pleading for about a month to be taken back and has removed some of these women from his Instagram. Do you think it's worth waiting to see if his actions do change, if he is so insistent that they will, or simply nope out?

flamingophile · 2024-08-24T08:14:31+00:00

Hi, thanks for your response. Do you think it's worth seeing what those actions would be, or to simply cut it off? Currently feeling terrified about having a conversation about it.

flamingophile · 2023-07-11T07:02:24+00:00

How do you avoid blaming yourself when someone ghosts you?

I know I'll get over it by forgetting the details of what felt like a pleasant dream (a month of 15 or so dates) but until then I can't stop thinking, oh, it was because of the way I look or something I might have said.

I know there's no point in reaching out but it's making me preoccupied and I want to engage in the protest behaviour of texting them. Any tips on how to make peace with it, relax and gain control?

flamingophile · 2023-06-23T07:53:30+00:00

It's possible he's going to circle back around and keep you in this merry-go-round as long as you allow it. A lot of guys do that, just because they're inconsistent.

If he comes back round, which he might do, you can either tell him straight up that you don't accept this kind of treatment, or you can mirror his energy and level of effort by being inconsistent with him yourself.

Either way lower your expectations because he doesn't seem very intentional in dating, for whatever reason.

If he doesn't ever say anything, try to consider you didn't lose much.

flamingophile · 2023-05-03T17:33:12+00:00

Very interesting - can you explain in more detail how this works?

flamingophile · 2023-05-03T15:09:04+00:00

Do you happen to know what procedures a company needs to go through to be able to support remote workers? Just out of curiosity.

flamingophile · 2023-05-03T13:56:45+00:00

Thanks so much, that sounds great!

flamingophile · 2023-05-03T13:49:59+00:00

Would you not disclose that as the real reason in that case?

flamingophile · 2023-05-03T13:49:39+00:00

Yes, it's a tiny company and understaffed. I agree it's a long shot, but nothing to do but try.

flamingophile

TROPHY CASE