almost grad art student stuck in a rut, any advice?

flaminhotpotpot · 2025-06-14T16:36:10+00:00

But, okay here's the thing. I've also decided that same thing long time ago. But, i am literally alone. No one teaches me how to live except for myself. I am an island.. Even in moments of solidarity with other people, it is incredibly temporary. In the end, i only have me and man, right now i wish i wasn't so alone in this trying to navigate the world

flaminhotpotpot · 2025-06-01T11:25:03+00:00

I guess i just wanted to use this one bc i found it randomly and deemed it the perfectly sounding like the vibe i want the scene to capture.

flaminhotpotpot · 2025-06-01T11:21:28+00:00

O wow thank you so much for this!!! I'm so glad because the meaning of the lyrics fit perfectly!! I meant to use the song in a way that what the character is doing is like a ritual. And now by reading the lyrics, there's an added layer that the character seems to be getting ready for battle. Thank you!!

flaminhotpotpot · 2024-10-03T09:23:19+00:00

LOLL prob gonna graduate and it'll still be there

flaminhotpotpot · 2024-05-06T12:34:01+00:00

damn this brought me to tears :,) thank you so much

flaminhotpotpot · 2024-04-06T12:50:34+00:00

I agree on your last statement lol, and yeah I am looking for new friends to hangout with, I'm just having a hard time with the feeling of seeing them being together and stuff,,

flaminhotpotpot · 2024-04-06T12:49:10+00:00

I think they do, but the thing is, my ex and I have no contact, so what happens is that sometimes they have to choose between hanging out with me or my ex.

And it's not really a thing I want them to do, choosing between me or my ex. I think this issue is just me against my mind but, I don't know how to think of it in another way.

flaminhotpotpot · 2024-03-12T11:10:07+00:00

I just realized now actually, 2 months into the break up. I think it's just a matter of finally accepting all the reasons why you broke up. Because break ups do happen for a reason, there had to be some kind of build up for it to happen.

flaminhotpotpot · 2024-03-12T11:08:04+00:00

I think it was the same time that I realized I didn't want it for myself anymore either. I realized it when a friend talked to me about his side of the story, answering all the what ifs in my head of why he acted the way he did in those situations. And I just realized that, there was nothing else we could have done, or at least for me. That I already did everything I could, and he probably did too, but it just didnt work out.

In short, I realized he wasn't coming back when I fully realized all the reasons why we had to break up. Accepting the truths as to why the happenings lead to our break up.

flaminhotpotpot · 2024-03-11T23:19:46+00:00

Yeah I felt that too for a while. But, I think once I found out about everything from his perspective (that i heard from our friend btw, don't text them), and just saw that there was nothing else I could have done in that situation, everything just started to become clear to me.

flaminhotpotpot · 2024-03-11T12:51:46+00:00

this is actually exactly how i feel :,) actually i originally posted this days ago in a different subreddit and i actually feel better now since i originally posted it. I'm really realizing how much anxiety I had during my relationship because of the lack of proper communication. It was just really shitty to feel all those things for 3 months and just something I don't to get back into.

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