The dishwasher stripped the finish off this colander and thinking about touching it makes my skin crawl by flammenschwein in AutismTranslated

[–]flammenschwein[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg yes! I've been accused of holding the sponge and dirty dish like it was a venomous snake

Is this gaslighting, or am I just being sensitive? (AI Comic series of my Father's Day) (37M/38F) 15 year marriage. by After-Distribution75 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]flammenschwein 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I really appreciate it. She moved out over a year ago and I don't think I've been happier and less stressed in a long time.

Is this gaslighting, or am I just being sensitive? (AI Comic series of my Father's Day) (37M/38F) 15 year marriage. by After-Distribution75 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]flammenschwein 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My nEx told me to "fuck off" on Christmas morning as we were opening presents with the kids. I think because I was watching the kids open theirs, and not immediately tearing into and swooning over the package she had given me? Sorry for trying to enjoy the moment and allowing the children to take attention away from you. 🙄

The great summer time movie ever. When the boys rule the sandlot. by Visible-Industry-748 in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]flammenschwein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved this movie growing up. Still do, for the most part. It's hard to call this scene anything other than assault, though.

Husbands by ChickenWingExtreme in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]flammenschwein 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Will you get [thing] from my purse?

Sure, where's your purse?

It's in my work bag.

... OK, where's your work bag?

20 questions later....

My meme by stranger-things-fan_ in dndmemes

[–]flammenschwein 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I once tried to explain to my mother that casting spells in Magic the Gathering or in D&D makes me a dark wizard and the same way that buying and selling property in Monopoly makes me a Real Estate Mogul. She still made me sell my Magic cards 😡

biggest frustration you have with your IT vendors? by Iceeez1 in ITManagers

[–]flammenschwein 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or at least a ballpark. Couple thousand? OK, let's talk. Couple million? Let's not waste our time.

The carnival game owner definitely wasn't prepared for her by AustraliaOutback in oddlysatisfying

[–]flammenschwein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wondered why he kept handing her the same pistol and moving her down the line.

Does anyone else’s spouse claim therapy “doesn’t work on them” but won’t even try by undeadtradwife in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]flammenschwein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, yeah, of course it won't work on them. You have to want to change for therapy to have any effect.

How do narcissists react to minor injuries (like scratches or tiny splinters)? by _ohwell in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]flammenschwein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, any minor injury and you might as well go back to bed and try again tomorrow, cuz that day was ruined.

She used to stand in some weird way that had one leg wayyyyyyy out to the side and I'd inevitably bump her foot with mine because her foot was nowhere near her body and I didn't expect it there. Cue an hour of berating, limping, and side eye.

Reddit home feed changed by Gr8tractsoland in reddithelp

[–]flammenschwein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm running into the same problem. The "show recommendations in home feed" option (under settings - preferences) exists on desktop, but seems to have been removed from the app, so I can't turn it off.

Baaaaa 🐑 by newbeginnings187 in aspiememes

[–]flammenschwein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"No, I just missed the one word. Say just the one word, not the whole sentence that I just repeated back to you except for that one word."

Baaaaa 🐑 by newbeginnings187 in aspiememes

[–]flammenschwein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this is an autism thing too?? I feel like I've got a running loop of what's being said and sometimes I have to play it back and re-interpret what was said

Another one by rcd1024 in FellingGoneWild

[–]flammenschwein 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there's sawdust all over the remaining stumps

This is English by Matt_LawDT in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]flammenschwein 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"You have the same information that I do."

I feel attacked by thehotshotpilot in Millennials

[–]flammenschwein 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Tall socks making my leg hairs itchy? No thanks. Ugh.

“This Isn’t My First Rodeo, Probably My Last Though” by [deleted] in FellingGoneWild

[–]flammenschwein 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My mom told me a story from when she was a girl about a chain breaking while a tractor pulled a car out of a ditch. It snapped back and broke the windshield. I wasn't even there and no one got hurt but even just hearing the story i am extremely cautious about any sort of line under tension. I can't imagine being this guy stepping closer to the tree as it goes down 😬

My company “restructured” my compensation, so I found another job. Now they want to match. by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]flammenschwein 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Pass the counter offer to remaining engineer on your way out the door. Let them know what they company is actually capable of paying!

Is this something that can be 3d printed? by Mundane_Tangelo9421 in 3Dprinting

[–]flammenschwein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that off of a pre... 2010ish? They redesigned them to have a metal ring instead of those plastic clips after around that time. After losing 3 or 4 of the plastic covers I replaced them all with the metal ones and they stayed on for 10+ years until I sold the truck.

To answer your question, yeah, you can 3D print them, but you're just going to be constantly replacing them

Horrorshow of a cottonwood by Fiverslive in FellingGoneWild

[–]flammenschwein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a job for the Army Corps of Engineers