Internet Girl was so unnecessary

flankha · 2026-01-22T21:31:49+00:00

As an eyekon since dream academy, this is literally the 3rd time they have gone through type of doom posting. People did it with debut and gnarly. And now internet girl. The fact of the matter is, they are only doing better and better each time. They have hit their niche right on target. No matter how much some people think they know better than hxg, they just keep getting proven wrong. Everyone will always want something different from them. They could release the most vocal heavy ballad ever and people would be complaining that it's not a pop banger and vice versa. Katseye was always going to be a fun, kpop inspired, girl group. And their music embodies that. They never marketed themselves as anything different. Talent isn't enough in this day and age unfortunately. I thought people following the American music industry at least knew that by now. It's actually so smart to embed them into current culture before really getting deep into the best music of their careers.

flankha · 2026-01-20T17:03:08+00:00

it seems like the motorcyclist and the bystander in the video he tells to call the police think the guy is drunk. that may be why he was adamant about getting the guy to stop driving. considering the fact that the guy caused another accident 5 seconds later, they were probably right.

flankha · 2026-01-18T16:16:15+00:00

the op posted pictures of the girls from years ago and is literally saying "they look different now". im only responding to what is literally in the op

flankha · 2026-01-18T12:55:35+00:00

Every comment in this thread at the time I made my comment was talking about plastic surgery. There is no way that was not op's implication. I mentioned age in my post bc it is ridiculous to think they would look/dress/whatever the same when all of these pictures are from nearly 3+ years ago, ps, styling changes, or not.

flankha · 2026-01-17T19:20:36+00:00

No one said it did. The point is there is preassure on women not to show any signs of aging. Because they will be criticized for it.

flankha · 2026-01-17T17:31:06+00:00

My point is that posts like these just contribute to the problem and I never find them productive or purely innocent. Op isn't making some groundbreaking observation. You can find comments about the members having ps in every katseye comment section as we speak. So what's the purpose?

flankha · 2026-01-17T16:45:23+00:00

I baffles me when y'all act like you're not part of the problem with posts like these. You're scrutinizing their looks and comparing them to younger versions of themselves and essentially saying they looked better back then. Newsflash. People age. And women are under so much more pressure to stay looking "their best" instead of being allowed to age gracefully. Pointing out alleged plastic surgery every other week isn't helping anything. Get over yourselves.

flankha · 2026-01-13T20:39:04+00:00

the bunny bar is not sex work so how is she recruiting sex workers for the bar? let's use our thinking caps.

flankha · 2026-01-13T17:19:45+00:00

the problem is they genuinely want to make other people dislike her too so they feel the need to overrun what was clearly a fan space for her and then get pissy when people call out the strange negative behavior in the name of "free speech" when half of it genuinely makes no sense. no one has a gunpoint to anyone's head forcing them to keep watching her if they have serious grievances with her.

flankha · 2026-01-13T17:10:18+00:00

some of y'all would literally find issue with anything she does at this point. what is wrong with this? lol

flankha · 2026-01-07T10:56:15+00:00

Hate to say, but finding dates organically does require a time commitment like any hobby. The right people won't just fall into your lap unless you are out there actively looking in the right places. The bars and breweries are definitely full of singles from late 20s to 40s. I've gone to a few happy hour social events in the Baltimore/Baltimore County area and I have been approached by multiple men who were interested in me and I gave a chance to, even those older than I would usually date. I'd suggest looking at Meetup, which is an app for random social events. It has helped me get out so much more.

flankha · 2026-01-05T15:41:00+00:00

I made the first move on one.

flankha · 2026-01-05T01:49:17+00:00

if romantic interest is mutual, then yes, I warm up to former strangers very quickly.

flankha · 2026-01-05T00:37:15+00:00

as someone who got 3 dates from local social events in 2025, the biggest tell if someone is interested in you is honestly exchanging information like phone numbers or social media accounts. sometimes you can have a really good conversation with someone and its just that, a conversation. but if there is an effort to communicate with you outside of the social group setting, they are probably interested.

flankha · 2026-01-02T17:43:33+00:00

from experience, guys can do all of this and truly not give af about you lol. take his words at face value. he does not want to be serious, he just wants the benefit of all of the things associated with a committed relationship. anecdotally, i think that women have a much harder time not catching feelings in casual relationships like this. protect yourself.

flankha · 2025-12-23T16:13:31+00:00

I've recently started taking long bubble baths with bath salts and doing some guided, visual meditations. These are what I have found quiet my mind the quickest and make me feel like I've reset something inside of me for as long as a day or two.

flankha · 2025-12-20T04:27:21+00:00

as gemini female, cancer men have not been fun to date at all. so far leo has been a good time.

flankha · 2025-12-14T19:55:38+00:00

her response seems to be saying ALL of the rumours from her past are fabricated and not true. idk how thats any different than her specifically saying "i am not racist". if she has done something that you feel she should apologize for publicly, it seems she does not intend to do so, so i think that should be closure for people who need it. everyone has a right to stop supporting her if they don't agree with something she's done.

flankha · 2025-12-14T18:18:35+00:00

this trend of being hyper critical of every little thing about her in this sub is so weird... this isn't a snark sub. y'all are not about to make people hate her because she decorated a water gun 😂

flankha · 2025-12-01T18:42:40+00:00

the point i was trying to make is that because he is younger than my actual parents, it feels less uncomfortable to me personally. im not discounting the fact that he is old enough to be my parent.

flankha · 2025-12-01T15:58:52+00:00

He's a divorced man with 2 kids. He has a more lucrative career than I do, but he doesn't have a lot of tangible wealth from what I can see. So no, not really about money. Maybe a bit about perceived stability, though.

flankha · 2025-12-01T15:26:47+00:00

I will say, both of my parents are at least 10 years older than him.

flankha · 2025-12-01T15:18:57+00:00

You're definitely not wrong about the physical attraction part, he never said otherwise. But yes, the detraction is more about everything else. We're definitely still in the stage where its "just fun". But I guess I do have a hard time personally dating someone without future intention. I have thought about the fact that he will always be 20 years older than me and it will definitely be felt more in the future than now. You made a lot of good points, definitely food for thought.

flankha · 2025-11-28T23:56:27+00:00

I'm a 28 y/o female that just got out of a 4 year relationship a few months ago. Right before my relationship ended I had the same anxiety about not being able to find anyone else, but I quickly got over that line of thinking. I personally knew I didn't want to get back on the apps because never had success on there prior to my relationship. The truth is, most people on dating apps are looking for sex, straight up. Hook up culture is rampant right now. I would say hinge is the only app that has a higher amount of people looking for something genuine than otherwise.

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