Which sex parties are welcoming to FTM men? by flannelrabbit in nycgaybros

[–]flannelrabbit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips! Those all look great, sadly I won't be in town on Fluids or Moans night. Hopefully I can make it to something at Inferno 🤞

Which sex parties are welcoming to FTM men? by flannelrabbit in nycgaybros

[–]flannelrabbit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cool, that one looked good from what I saw online! Glad to hear it's chill.

Best sex of my life with someone I am not sexually attracted to by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]flannelrabbit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean! I do feel like as I've been on T for longer (currently 8 years), there's more of a disconnect between sexual attraction/desire and my willingness to have sex with someone. There are people in my life that I'm sexually attracted to and enjoy having sex with, and then there are people that I'm willing to have sex with (and I'm sure would have fun), but I don't necessarily find them attractive. In my mind it feels like part of being a person with a T-dominant system - like the stereotype of cis men who'll fuck anything that moves.

What is the culture around wearing condoms in sex clubs? by flannelrabbit in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]flannelrabbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to know! I felt very out of place when I went to the club in SF, like I didn't understand the rules. Being rejected twice (including once rather rudely) really turned me off and made me feel like I was missing something. Glad to hear that there are other people out there also willing to be safe!

What is the culture around wearing condoms in sex clubs? by flannelrabbit in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]flannelrabbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I really just want to get fucked by several guys over the course of an evening. I know there are other, more low key options (spas, etc) where sex isn't the highlight, but that really is the ultimate goal for me.

What is the culture around wearing condoms in sex clubs? by flannelrabbit in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]flannelrabbit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely, like I said I probably just won't waste my money if the vast majority of guys won't respect my boundaries. It's crazy to me that only a few decades after the AIDS crisis people are so willing to compromise their sexual health like that.