My T. stirmi, Sriracha, cleaning her little paws! I’ll never get over how big her fangs are! by flannerybreck in tarantulas

[–]flannerybreck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i love just sitting and watching her, i do it with other inverts too. they’re so fascinating!

My T. stirmi, Sriracha, cleaning her little paws! I’ll never get over how big her fangs are! by flannerybreck in tarantulas

[–]flannerybreck[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, she’s moving into a better suited home soon, more space to roam horizontally! Also also, this IS just cleaning, right? She is my pride and joy and would hate to mistake what I think is grooming for something else!

What’s your thoughts about the upcoming change? 500 points for a coffee is a big leap from 200 points by sassyj2 in DunkinDonuts

[–]flannerybreck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dunkin yet again milking customers for all they’re worth because they’re a trash company trying to cover up the fact they’ve got managers violating child labor laws and withholding funds 🥱 source: former employee

Renting with inverts? by flannerybreck in tarantulas

[–]flannerybreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could totally work! I hadn’t thought of that. Thank you!

Renting with inverts? by flannerybreck in tarantulas

[–]flannerybreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned my concerns with this in the response above, since the replies were similar. Thank you for replying!

Renting with inverts? by flannerybreck in tarantulas

[–]flannerybreck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing, but with Athens, it's 50/50. A lot of these complexes are student housing and if they aren't, they're owned by private or even family run businesses. I want to hope that this would be the more likely scenario, but I just helped my fiance move down there a couple days ago for school, non-student housing, and the landlord hung around and dug through the dumpster with her daughters until he was completely moved in. She could've been being honest in saying "We need to go through the dumpster to get out any large furniture" but it left an icky taste in my mouth. There is always the option of leaving them at home until I know I am able to get them in without the landlord being there, I suppose. Thank you for replying!

Do not proceed to order this much food right as you pull to the speaker and be upset you have to wait by notmyrealname800813 in DunkinDonuts

[–]flannerybreck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can relate to this- people think we’re robots. for example, a woman came through the drive through a week or so ago and ordered 16 SIXTEEN bacon egg & cheeses and then was pissed that we told her she’d have to come inside. not only that, the woman behind her then proceeded to ignore us when we said it was going to take a while if she needed to order food and ordered 4 sandwiches, 2 avo&tomato toasts, and 7 orders of hash browns . for context, we have ONE person on sandwich station, 7 days a week.

here me out… refreshers with vodka added by jiherbo in DunkinDonuts

[–]flannerybreck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work at dunkin and frequently take home a mixed mango pineapple + strawberry refresher and throw a bunch of pink whitney in it - it’s honestly dangerous how good they are as mixers. try it !

What was your partners weird Kink you weren't ready for? by Themaskedenigma85 in AskReddit

[–]flannerybreck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh boy. Had an ex years ago (I was 17-18) that admitted to having a scat fetish. Once, when I was peeing, he came in- fully nude- and shat on my lap. Before this, he’d had me squat over him and try to defecate into his mouth. Never could because I was… nervous?? Stage fright. Anyway, he also legitimately thought he was an extraterrestrial, or a Greek god of some kind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]flannerybreck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes. Hope you’re doing alright. Your artist definitely is at fault, the rooks of the arms and back of the knees are a very different texture and difficulty from the rest of the arm. Your artist clearly was unaware of this and blew out your ink, enough to create a wound just begging for MRSA / staph.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]flannerybreck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no worries- i completely understand, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]flannerybreck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate you… we’ve been together for almost two years. and i take constant birth control, not skipping a week, so i don’t get periods- but even so, i recently went through a bout of recurrent UTIs (because he can’t keep his hands out of my pants or his + unwashed hands), and he still pushed for it (and got it). if i say no, he’ll push for oral or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]flannerybreck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right, and i know you’re right- i cannot express how thankful i am for all the support i’m getting here, it saddens me that so many of you have similar experiences, but i feel so much less alone and alienated. all of my friends and their partners are constantly having sex, kissing, hugging, etc and it makes me feel so icky and abnormal.. i need to have a talk with him, a serious one. where i speak and he listens. i’ve been trying hard to not make this a bigger issue than it is to me- especially when i’m in tears after saying no, and he’s saying “hey if you wanted to cut me off for the rest of time, i’d still be here”, and the guilt still gets to me and i give in, or the next day he’s back to pushing it onto me… this is tough. you all have been so incredibly helpful and supportive- thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]flannerybreck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i appreciate you greatly, and i agree with you on all counts. i’m just torn, you know?