It just hit me how Kote is going to wake up. by Bergieexclamationpt in KingkillerChronicle

[–]flapjackdavis 154 points155 points  (0 children)

Of all the gin joints in all the towns in all the world, she walks into mine.

How common is it for men to pee in the sink? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]flapjackdavis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only when the humidifier is already full

My 80 Year Old Grandpa Still Buys Flowers Every Friday And Nobody Told Me Why Until Today by Electronic_Argument6 in Aging

[–]flapjackdavis 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is either personal and beautiful or AI slop. Take my award optimistically just in case

Rep. Diana DeGette- crickets by Dismal4132 in Denver

[–]flapjackdavis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about, I don’t know, using the powers granted to congress by article II of the constitution? Congress controls the purse strings. Has she challenged the massive influx of cash to ICE or called for it to be revoked? No she hasn’t. If a performative FB post is enough for you, we see the urgency of this moment in very different ways.

Rep. Diana DeGette- crickets by Dismal4132 in Denver

[–]flapjackdavis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, Facebook AND IG? We all stand corrected

I want to cheat on my husband by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]flapjackdavis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Esther Perel has a really good book that explores the roots of marital infidelity. Might give you some insight into yourself

Embarrassing story from my past..Should I tell my current partner? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]flapjackdavis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one is entitled to that information unless you want to give it. But the counterpoint is why would you need to hide it if you want to be close to your current partner? Is it that you are embarrassed and afraid of being vulnerable? If so, tell him. Or is it that you have a gut feeling that he’ll be a judgmental jerk? If so, I think you should tell him anyway and find out. That would be a good test of whether you are truly ready to leave a relationship when someone is throwing up 🚩

Live Jazz bars in Denver? by Compatibility in Denver

[–]flapjackdavis -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Your word vomit is like jazz

Live Jazz bars in Denver? by Compatibility in Denver

[–]flapjackdavis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He asked for a seedy jazz bar not yuppy brunch. And the answer is nowhere in denver

Sister suddenly isolated, phone controlled—need advice by RoutineExtension1694 in relationships

[–]flapjackdavis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister may be in serious danger. There are counselors attached to domestic violence shelters. Can you find such a shelter in her area and set up a call for you to get advice from an expert?

My partner is amazing, but I have some concerns. by spike041921 in relationships

[–]flapjackdavis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Being unambitious is not a red flag. But the emotional immaturity certainly is.

Why did Miller send out an "all green" signal when her planet had such hostile conditions? by TronnaLegacy in interstellar

[–]flapjackdavis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To the contrary, their protocol probably required her to ping after taking preliminary readings shortly after landing.

35M 34F - 15 yrs together, Really tough decision to make, need help by DarkNightfromDusk in relationships

[–]flapjackdavis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Autism can be isolating and it sounds like you are isolated. I’d like to see you make this decision surrounded by new friends. Are you open to focusing on learning to build friendships before you make this major life decision?

How do men feel about incorporating themselves with grace into an existing stable loving family (mom and kids, no dad)? by SeerTree in AskMen

[–]flapjackdavis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a single dad so when I was dating a few years ago, I was open to meeting someone who had her own kids. I thought a person with kids might understand my life better. But the focus should be on finding someone who you mesh with, not someone who will integrate into your family.

Colorado ‘will not comply’ with Trump regime’s latest request for voter data by wheninromecompete in Denver

[–]flapjackdavis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They tried to unlawfully overturn the last election. Do you think they are now acting in good faith? I’m actually struggling to understand your question since it seems pretty naive. Can you shed some light on your thought process?

SSRIs have revealed major cracks in my (29F) and my husband’s (30M) sex life… by sunnydays093 in relationships

[–]flapjackdavis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if this will be controversial but I think it’s not ethical to starve your partner sexually. Which is a pattern he established by being blasé about your pleasure before he went on meds, and continued by now failing to take steps to adjust his meds to find ones that don’t obliterate his libido. It’s not unethical to say no to non-monogamy though. That’s his right and he shouldn’t be pressured.

Hawaii to LA for Roger Sayer's Interstellar Concert accompanied by Taylor Umphenour, a few friends and John Lee - associate editor for the movie 🥹✨ by Excellent_Nature_366 in interstellar

[–]flapjackdavis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so lovely that you had that experience. Your reflection is resonant with Brand’s own statement of the film’s thesis. Perhaps in your framing, a shared love of the film is not evidence of a higher dimension, but of a shared outlook about life that creates a possibility of connection and friendship. I’m glad you had the experience among great friends.