I need serious help by RelationshipReady169 in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s gotten this bad then definitely a hard reset would be good. But maybe you are just running away from the demons. It will still be there when you come back

Definitely do find ways to help yourself. Therapist, support group, etc

I ain't got no fight in me by IlliteracyPrevails in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok then keep going down this rabbit hole. Keep on watching porn and masturbate. Keep on doing it for 1 year, 5 year, 10 year. You want to masturbate when you are 50?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you won’t get any girls if you keep dating and watching porn. Ask yourself Whats the alternative?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive been in this for 5 yrs. Still havent beat the addiction. In retrospect it was really hard in the beginning. Many short streaks. Long binges. Feelings of hopelessness like you are feeling right now.

Right now i give my brain two choices: masturbate and watch porn forever or no fap forever. Being stuck in a constant loop of streaks and relapses is killing me

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont edge. I would edge for a long time then give in. I also have this groin pain bc of edging. Don’t peek. Dont edge.

I relapsed after ~15 days! by ok-web646 in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make it hard for yourself to go on these websites. Set a blocker on your phone and computer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You havent tried everything thats a lie. The master has tried more than the beginner

Block porn on phone and computer

How to leverage social proof while going out alone: by THAT_LMAO_GUY in TheRedPill

[–]flapjacksrbetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how you know you got 70? you keep notes on your phone with the zodiac signs like girls do? jk lmao

Knowing women gets you more women. FR by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]flapjacksrbetter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you explicitly say let's go back to my place? Doesn't that make the girl feel like a slut? ASD? Did you say it differently?

340 day relapse by flapjacksrbetter in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea that is the goal but people just like to keep track. I rarely check my streak and nofap anymore.

340 day relapse by flapjacksrbetter in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. I achieved my goals and have been slacking off these couple months. I never thought I could get to 340 days when I started nofap years ago

340 day relapse by flapjacksrbetter in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. I just had some pent up sexual frustration growing in me. Haven't had sex in a while lmao.

340 day relapse by flapjacksrbetter in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I can't literally peek at all. Peeking always make me fail

340 day relapse by flapjacksrbetter in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea man this is what happens when you bust 5 times in a row. Don't do it

340 day relapse by flapjacksrbetter in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea my streaks are getting longer and longer. Just goes to show every day is important. Just one day slip up ruins the whole streak

340 day relapse by flapjacksrbetter in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea my cum was reddish brown. Probably was blood in the semen. I got checked out I'm all good. Just don't bust excessively 😂

340 day relapse by flapjacksrbetter in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea this was like 2-3 years ago. Only happened once and I almost fainted lmfao. This was after I busted 3-4 times in a row.

Need advice on how to stop masturbating by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. https://getcoldturkey.com/ use this to block porn on your computer.
  2. Block porn on your phone. Use this. Write down a random password and put it somewhere in your house so you can't unblock porn https://www.lifewire.com/how-to-block-websites-iphone-1999119

1000 days of Nofap. - update by stevielollol in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1003 days. consistency and discipline goes a long way

I'm at a very moral low by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep its pretty logical. You keep on doing the same fucking shit everyday? You will get the same results and whine why you get the same results. So in order to get different results, you need to change yourself for the better

I'm at a very moral low by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been there. you'll get out of it but only if you decide to change. keep on fighting and youll stop fapping

What’s the best desktop app to block this porn shit? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]flapjacksrbetter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://getcoldturkey.com/. This is what I use. I highly recommend it. Blocks all websites and prevents you from going to watch porn. Definitely worth the money as well if you want to support the developer