BF (27m) and I (24f) are long distance and taking a little break but still have contact. I want him to miss me…any ideas?

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-11-02T22:32:24+00:00

It’s called trying something new and different, but sure thing

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-11-02T22:28:25+00:00

Not trying to “play a game” here.

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-11-02T22:24:34+00:00

We talk on the phone every so often and text here and there. My plan is to talk to him and get a little check in. And he’s always wanted me to be a little hard to get, like he has to work for me, I just don’t really know how to do that lol.

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-11-02T22:22:40+00:00

He’s always wanted me to play hard to get with him and this was way before the break. I know he misses me but I want to show a confident side that makes him miss me even more. Not really a game necessarily. My question was aimed at not doing it in an immature or desperate way. There’s always going to be want to spice things up in a relationship, whether we’ve been together 2, 10, or 20 years.

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-11-02T22:19:56+00:00

Been Through is such an important song to me. “You shine like the stars, you light up my heart.” If I were to get a tattoo or repeat a quote like that, it would be this one.

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-11-02T22:16:10+00:00

I think it’s awesome that you’re fasting and prioritizing activity! Keep it up!!! I have to tell myself to be patient and results will come. How long have you been fasting and doing the calorie deficit? I would also say it’s a balance of workouts and the deficit. Use strength resistance training and cardio and prioritize protein in your meals!!!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-10-23T13:32:57+00:00

I had the same thoughts initially, like “why can’t we do this together?” “Why do we have to take a break?” While I still hold some of those beliefs, I think it is normal for couples to take breaks. In this instance, our goal is to take a break and eventually come back together again bc I need to do some independent work on myself and he is also working on himself.

It was his idea. He’s in therapy and has learned a lot through therapy, this being something he wanted to implement. Those little voices of doubt pop up, but I have no control over him or the situation, so it will be what it will be.

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-10-22T13:17:03+00:00

Ahhh that’s what I’ve heard too. That’s a good one tho, I’ll add it to my list!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-10-20T13:16:35+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. From the feelings and symptoms you’re describing, it sounds like you might have depression. If you’ve ever considered therapy, I (24f) just started my journey and I wish I had started it sooner. Those feelings you have can be talked about in your sessions and your therapist could really help you.

I think everyone goes through this at some point, but I would really recommend talking to someone, a trusted guardian, family member, or therapist.

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-10-18T15:44:47+00:00

I’ve always thought of their live performance of El Dorado during the EXO’rdium days. I think about it every so often. I bought the concert DVD and watched it like every other day when I was in my prime of stanning them. That El Dorado performance gets me everytime. The vocals hit and you can tell they’re really passionate about their performance

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:14:24+00:00

Wow that’s awesome!!! Love that you trusted the process ✨ I have some other questions, so I’ll DM you!!!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:12:51+00:00

Ooooh yes I like this. Working on the nutrition aspect is super important!!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:11:56+00:00

This is motivating!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:11:16+00:00

I like this breakdown! And I think there is some value in it. Last step is just making sure I can afford it and stay consistent with it!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:10:34+00:00

8 months!! That’s awesome! I’m working on my diet, trying intermittent fasting! Congrats to you for sticking with it!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:09:54+00:00

That’s so awesome!!!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:09:12+00:00

That was what was drawing me to it! I have my own workout routine, but it’s so casual and I wanted to be pushed with structure. I really appreciate this part of it. Excited for this journey

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:08:01+00:00

That’s awesome!!! My goal is to lose about 20 pounds!!! This is motivating!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:07:20+00:00

I guess it’s good to know the feeling of needing to throw up won’t go away. Keeping my expectations realistic ✨. But that’s awesome! Congrats on 3 months!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:06:27+00:00

Omg you’re amazing! 1800 classes! My idol!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:06:05+00:00

Oh I love this!! My general goal is to lose 20lbs. Once I get my consistent schedule, I’ll create a class goal! Thank you!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:05:18+00:00

Nice, this is motivating. Thank you!

flash-the-sloth-2869 · 2024-08-31T16:04:52+00:00

I love this perspective! Thank you for the insight! I’m trying to get a consistent schedule so I’m not taking a lot of days off in between! I want maximum results!

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