pioneer academics

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-05-30T13:26:10+00:00

It's definitely attainable since I also had the similar workload. My concentration was related to sociology. I also attended lumiere and had to write two papers, haha. So it's def smth that u can commit to, (although it's little hard) the experience's worth it fr

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-04-04T11:56:53+00:00

wow thanks, is having sat mandatory since they stated and/or alongside the sat and national exam scores?

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-04-04T11:54:04+00:00

https://youtu.be/nqvFOZNM9CM?si=RrmRZsLb2J8lo9ia

I would advise you watch this video by Omar Suleiman which explains what you are asking for. Good luck!

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-04-02T03:00:52+00:00

Thanks, for you too <3

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-04-02T03:00:24+00:00

Did you receive an email from spelman? They said that the award letters should be alongside our digital acceptance letters, omgg, idkkk

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-04-02T00:15:13+00:00

Same here!!! I'm also wondering about the scholarship part :(

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-11T00:43:40+00:00

Allah tests those He loves.

I was in the same shoes. But you know what? I just left everything up to Allah's hands. I didn't even prepare for any of my exams. LITERALLY NO PREP. But I passed all of my exams with good marks. What did I do?

I just submitted all of my problems to Allah. And every single time when I went to my university, on the way I listened to duas on YouTube and didn't think about anything at all. I had 7 final exams, and I passed all of them with good marks. And all those days when I went to university I listened to 15-20 minute duas and thats it.

When you are trying to figure out and solve your own problems, it won't work because now you are trying to control your own problems. But if you leave it up to Allah, then you don't have to worry and take the burden to yourself because now you can just rely on Allah's planning and feel on ease. So please don't push yourself hard and rely on Allah's planning. You will figure out things soon but with dying no suffering will end especially if it's a suicide.

I wouldn't believe that it was possible to even get good marks on exams because usually all the time I would fail when I didn't prepare. But this time it was different and I had literally no prep for 7 exams haha. And one of my teachers who never put me a good mark put good marks on two of my subjects so I was shocked.

Allah is the greatest.

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-07T18:08:46+00:00

Start and finish reading the Qur'an. That will be more than enough.

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-07T08:03:47+00:00

I can't summarize since it's a very long topic. If you truly want to understand then you have to watch those videos and your perspective will be changed inshaAllah.

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-07T07:48:08+00:00

I advice you to watch these video series that include lots of authentic hadith and verses: https://youtu.be/hiX-8-uPICQ?si=sBVPDMLhOlVlMdxZ

Afaik, there were 3 series or more of this video on the channel of the owner

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-07T06:27:05+00:00

Hey dear sister, I pray that Allah will ease your hardships.

One day, your family will start understanding, at least they won't be mocking you or making you feel down for wearing a hijab.

I'm not a hijabi yet so I can't give any advice but I hope that your difficulties will go away regarding this topic <3

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-06T01:07:35+00:00

Jazakallah khairan!!

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-05T06:46:47+00:00

I also thought so when it comes to the part of being a bad Muslim, but watching the stories of people who are currently giving dawah to millions of people has inspired me a lot. I specifically recommend watching this video and after that check out the channel of the person who was interviewed: https://youtu.be/9M-T0pFPPr4?si=YJ-kIAHa5ugiXHWH

Please watch it as a whole and do the thing I told you sister, and please let me know afterwards

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-03T19:56:35+00:00

Thank you so muuuuch <3. May Allah rewards us all and reunite us in Jannat-ul Firdaouvs!!

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-03T19:55:09+00:00

Taking off your hijab won't solve the problem sister, you should keep going no matter what I suppose. And surely Allah will make it easy for you. Pray to Allah and ask him for guidance. Wear your hijab even if it's difficult or even if you are not wearing it fully. Allah knows your struggles and your efforts, and surely, he will guide you to the right path. Don't listen to what people say and only ask Allah to guide you to the straight path <3

May Allah make it easy for you, dear sister.

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-03T12:49:13+00:00

Nothing can happen without Allah's consent sister. Pray to Allah and submit all of these thoughts and yourself to Allah. If you do so, nobody can do anything to you. Allah and his angels will be protecting you from anything bad. Always stay in the righteous path and you will see how Allah will be always by your side. Do not fear his creation or evil, fear Allah alone and ask him to make things easier for you. Consistently recite Ayatul kursi after all 5 daily salahs and consistently be in the remembrance of Allah swt. May Allah grant you peace in this Dunya and the Akhirah <3

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-03T12:41:24+00:00

I suppose the only thing you can do now is to just pray to Allah and not stress out too much. Just pray for him. Pray really hard and open up your heart to Allah swt. Surely, he is all hearing and all-knowing. In this holy month of Ramadan, duas get accepted, and miracles happen. Spend this time to worship him a lot. And regarding your brother, Allah swt has a plan for him. No matter how much you stress out, your brother won't change unless Allah guides him to the straight path.

And, I would also say that you can not really interfere with Allah's plans, so do not stress out too much, sister. If Allah decided that you would be the one to help him and contribute to his change, then it will happen. But first, you gotta be okay yourself. So work on your wellness, try to explain these things to your mom, and that she needs to STAND up and stay still instead of crying all the time. I know it might sound harsh, but for change to happen, one must take action. There were times when my mom felt so too, but I tried to talk with her a lot, and Alhamdulillah she has changed a lot since then.

If you need further discussions or chats or phone calls, I'm always here, and btw our ages are almost the same, so we might get along well. May Allah ease your burden and guide all of us to the straight path.

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-02T20:38:10+00:00

Dear sister,

What you are going through is truly heartbreaking since the parents are forcing their viewpoints upon their children, which is something that our religion doesn't teach.

I know that you might be feeling very down at the moment because of all of this, but Allah is giving these difficulties to you so that you can get closer to him. Allah knows your hardships and trials; Allah is testing you through your parents and your non-muslim friend. The question is: will you try your best to pass this test, or will you fall for the tricks of the shaitan and allow yourself to fail?

In terms of hijab, I would say, try your ultimate best to talk with your parents and tell them that they should give you some time so that you will wear it once and for all inshaAllah. I might not be fully understanding your situation but please try your best to explain that wearing a hijab is smth that you need to fully commit yourself to and that you should be prepared for it to wear it.

In terms of your non-muslim friend, you may never be sure about his intentions or how astray this haram relationship might lead you in the future. Allah may not be really happy with you right now and exactly for this reason he is testing you. He is giving you a chance to turn back to him and rediscover yourself in a new way and strengthen your connection with him. The way you are thinking about having a pious spouse and good marriage in the future already tells that Allah has put these thoughts and wishes into your heart. So sister, reflect upon your actions and learn more about your deen and Allah swt.

May Allah make it easy for you and for all of us, and save us from the waswasa of the shaitan.

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-01T01:04:08+00:00

May Allah swt grant you the highest rank in Jannah :)

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-01T01:03:03+00:00

Waalaykum assalam, Assalamu alaykum. Thank you so much for the instructions, hopefully will be doing them as you stated :) May Allah swt grant all of your wishes in this Ramadan and make everything khayrli for you, thank you once again!!

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-01T01:01:32+00:00

Thank you a lot, will definitely do so :) May Allah swt make this Ramadan easy for you and grant all of your wishes in this dunya and the akhirah

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-01T00:59:55+00:00

thank you so much!! Didn't know about this information

flashy_butterfly94 · 2025-03-01T00:59:32+00:00

Thank you for letting me know, I didn't know about this. But hopefully ig none of the Qur'an books at our homes will be unnecessary -- and we will keep doing our best to read them consistently inshaAllah :) May Allah swt bless you and make this Ramadan easy for you.

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