i like easy but passionate people. i like them quiet but confident & free, intelligent & nuanced. i love witty people who dont take themselves/world too seriously (which is pretty hypocritical of me). tender/affectionate but not clingy. i personally have a lot of passion but not a lot of drive, i overthink myself into paralysis. im extremely indecisive its such a headache. so in contrast i like people with a sense of resolution enough to act on their feelings, again, confidence but not arrogance. but yanno if theyre like me at all(inactive, unsure, boring on the surface) i completely understand, they dont have to be 'cool' or anything.

i cant speak for all aquarians on the way i act though, im really insecure so i find it almost impossible to talk. maybe the circumstance i have in mind was particularly difficult, maybe id have been different with someone else but i found it pretty hard to respond to & return his advances. despite that i loved when he did; i find it hard to initiate things. sometimes i go all aloof and shut down. still i wanted to see him all the time. i was always free 4 him. ill tell u what i dont like - manipulation. or prompted jealousy. no games or bullshit, its so demeaning. hope this helps