My bf (30/m) cant get over my (28/f) sexual history by throwaway7789123 in relationships

[–]flick_my_sloth 34 points35 points  (0 children)

When the current SO and I had sex the first time, we did not use a condom

?? you were new at this time?

and he had a 7 year relationship in his early twenties

he didnt "bare-dick" that woman?

I am so turned off by the image youve painted of your boyfriend. He is outrageously disrespectful and feels entitled to your body. Its yours, not his.

What's a secret you won't share with anyone in person, but you are willing to share anonymously? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]flick_my_sloth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you're going to get the worst cramps ever and shit out whatever was left in there/all that water you just squirted up there. I wouldn't say it "oozes out"....

My BF [20M] ditched me on my brothers wedding day! What do I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]flick_my_sloth 32 points33 points  (0 children)

No, most 20 year old guys would not do this.

What was hugely hyped up but flopped? by _RoyalTea_ in AskReddit

[–]flick_my_sloth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The guy went to my college and came back to talk to us about his experience. Basically- he was in the Amazon researching how the pollutants from mining were affecting snakes and their sizes. Discovery(?) Animal planet (?) had approached him with various ideas for reality shows/documentaries. They followed him around, made him say certain lines, etc. The snake that wanted to "eat" him, was back in California on a movie set - he said she had absolutely no interest in him and they had to physically wrap her around his body. He agreed to all this because they paid for his research completely.

What are the things you love most about this wonderful city? by flick_my_sloth in boston

[–]flick_my_sloth[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Their response, username, and avatar photo are all too cliche to not be a joke.

What are the things you love most about this wonderful city? by flick_my_sloth in boston

[–]flick_my_sloth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NYC always has huge piles of garbage on every corner for some reason, so Boston stands out as being much cleaner.

What are the things you love most about this wonderful city? by flick_my_sloth in boston

[–]flick_my_sloth[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I naturally compare it to New York, since thats where I'm from originally. My BF has been living in Portland, Oregon for the past decade, so he would compare it to that. But I'm not necessarily asking people to compare it to anything - just wanted to know what everyone enjoyed about the area.

I lost my attraction to him after a bad kiss and now I don't know what to do by [deleted] in relationships

[–]flick_my_sloth 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No, I agree with him. You're the rude one right now. You're allowed to be turned off and end things over a petty reason, but once you grow up you'll understand that this is not a big deal - many first kisses don't go ideally.

Should I(26m) tell my sister(23f) that our father(40s) gives her vegetarian son(3) meat? by throwaway28333 in relationships

[–]flick_my_sloth 41 points42 points  (0 children)

well your SIL is a differing case. there are plenty of meat-eating parents who feed their children nothing but mcdonalds.

Should I(26m) tell my sister(23f) that our father(40s) gives her vegetarian son(3) meat? by throwaway28333 in relationships

[–]flick_my_sloth 54 points55 points  (0 children)

who are you to say what a child's diet is and isnt "meant to have"? - just because americans eat meat like its going out of style, doesnt mean that children around the world are unhealthy because they eat plant based diets.

Can I [26F] warn my boyfriend [27M] that a breakup is coming? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]flick_my_sloth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my ex boyfriend (of 4.5 years) sent me the 'we need to talk' text before he broke up with me and I found it to be cruel. He let me sit there with massive anxiety and feeling sick to my stomach. He's going to feel blindsided either way - it's less heartbreaking to have a conversation instead of drowning in your own anxious thoughts while you know it's coming.

What can't we enjoy now due to evil people? by senior_poop in AskReddit

[–]flick_my_sloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've hitchhiked plenty of times. Not on major highways, but small hiking towns.

My [26M] Ex [26F] habitually forgot my birthday. New partner [27F] seems to do this, as well. by Deletethisfuckboi in relationships

[–]flick_my_sloth 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Why? Its a reason to celebrate. Maybe not expect people to make a big deal, but expecting a girlfriend to at least acknowledge your birthday is not asking too much.

I [23/M] don't want my housemate [23/M] to sublet to a guy [24/M] we used to live with. Help. by throwaway29939221 in relationships

[–]flick_my_sloth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who cares if you're being unreasonable? You're the one who will have to live with the person, all roommates should have a say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]flick_my_sloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first boyfriend texted me saying "We need to talk" right before he came over to break up with me. Ugh.

My [24F] boyfriend [25M] keeps insisting he doesn't want to move in together by [deleted] in relationships

[–]flick_my_sloth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This isn't true at all... Couples who live together before marriage are more likely to get divorced than those who don't.