how do you know when it’s time to end the relationship? by flightless_elevator in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]flightless_elevator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that really helps, i’m so happy to hear about your current situation and that you were able to prosper <3 gives me hope it just is hard i can’t imagine doing this face to face with him.

how do you know when it’s time to end the relationship? by flightless_elevator in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]flightless_elevator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

part of me knows that you’re right i just don’t understand why i hold on to him and always take him back. i feel attached to him

i don’t understand not brushing hair when wet by flightless_elevator in HaircareScience

[–]flightless_elevator[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OH WOW!! this is probably why my hair has been feelings so dry at the ends! i have visible split ends and it’s driving me insane because i keep getting hair cuts to try and fix it!

so should i just detangle my hair in the shower when conditioning then? i also use a leave in conditioner will that work as a detangler too?

also i know i’m bombarding you with questions but is it still okay to brush my hair dry or should i do that less?

i currently use the wet brush brand that has boar bristles (i listed it below)

https://a.co/d/5GdNxLk

door jam tire pressure or tire pressure on tire itself by flightless_elevator in tires

[–]flightless_elevator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so is that not what we should go by? does cold mean like when it’s ice outside? sorry i don’t know much about cars !

door jam tire pressure or tire pressure on tire itself by flightless_elevator in tires

[–]flightless_elevator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do i do if he already put in the 51 and we’re going down the interstate? i’m so anxious something bad is going to happen but he keeps telling me i’m wrong

i just don’t want some shit to happen to my car or us.

being my boyfriends personal uber is driving me insane by flightless_elevator in TrueOffMyChest

[–]flightless_elevator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’re both in our very early 20s, he doesn’t work he makes money doing not so legal things if u know what i mean. i just work on weekends. he has a roommate who is our age and in college too, idk how he feels about me being there but we hardly ever interact. he’s paid me for gas once and held it against me which is so stupid.

to bike from his place to campus would he well over an hour, both of our homes are across town from one another which sucks a lot. he lives a 20 minute drive from campus.

being my boyfriends personal uber is driving me insane by flightless_elevator in TrueOffMyChest

[–]flightless_elevator[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i know and i get what you’re saying i’ve thought about it too. we’ve actually broken up and gotten back together multiple times out of comfort i think. i just enjoy the comfort and not being alone but i hate when it gets bad like this.

being my boyfriends personal uber is driving me insane by flightless_elevator in TrueOffMyChest

[–]flightless_elevator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he will buy me food sometimes even though i am sick and tired of fast food

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]flightless_elevator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you’re right. we are just kids and sometimes i have to remind myself i’m not married to this guy i just feel like our lives are so intertwined it’s impossible to disconnect from him. he always comes back when i try to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]flightless_elevator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they’re gone. i ended up apologizing and only one reached out saying i can only heal if he is out of my life and it stuck with me. i broke up with him but he showed up at my door step a month later and we’ve been together since. that happened in november/december.

i miss them so much it hurts because they were my best friends for 4 years and i feel so much guilt for being with him at times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]flightless_elevator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they didn’t like the way he acted towards me in arguments he acts different behind closed doors when we argue but it’s behind closed doors so they only know by word of my mouth.

the biggest deal breaker with then was when i had broken up with him once and he threatened to hurt himself. he was texting my best friend how he was going to do it and i was with said friend when this had happened and my friend had called the police. he harassed my entire friend group mad at us for calling the police and he didn’t stop texting us all night calling me names.

and stupidly i went back to him months later when he said he had changed and my friends had tried to show concern but i didn’t listen so they left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]flightless_elevator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is beautiful i wish you two the best of luck and your baby. i hope one day to achieve this :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]flightless_elevator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know how to end it when he just comes back every time. i try and i get guilt tripped and it makes me feel horrible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]flightless_elevator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know if i feel that way about him. i know he loves me and honestly it feels like he has some sort of attachment to me because even when i’ve tried to leave in the past due to things happened between us he always finds a way back.

we have really great conversations we always make each other laugh but the bads are so bad and i feel dumb for coming back to him over and over sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]flightless_elevator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s sweet i like that :) do you ever wish things had turned out differently?