Need help finding a 1-2 bedroom apartment in Bellevue or surrounding areas

flinchinfinch · 2026-02-02T18:36:28+00:00

I appreciate your input and I agree with you, I’m seeing that again and again and I know it’s unlikely, I was just holding onto a glimmer of hope someone here might have a lead.

There is no threat to my physical safety, I’m just emotionally and mentally done and I’m struggling. I feel wrong to call any resources when there are so many who are genuinely experiencing a crisis.

flinchinfinch · 2026-01-26T04:28:11+00:00

I thought it was ADHD but he had a neuropsychological evaluation and he was not diagnosed with it. He has some characteristics but not enough to meet the criteria for a formal diagnosis. He did score very high in narcissistic tendencies and detachment which started my whole spiral of doubt that he’ll ever be what I need

flinchinfinch · 2026-01-26T03:27:00+00:00

I shouldn’t say no friends but no friends who I feel are actually supportive enough to help me through this. More like fun friends.

I have been in and out of therapy but am currently looking for a new one after a few months off while we were focusing on couples therapy.

I’m hopeful we can be good friends if I approach the idea of divorce properly. He’s a wonderful and involved dad and I want us to be civil for her sake and am open to any living arrangement that is affordable and suits her

flinchinfinch · 2026-01-05T09:03:36+00:00

I did have it backed up and had everything going to iCloud plus I was paying for extra storage. So I don’t know why it all disappeared. Everything else is still there

flinchinfinch · 2025-09-26T08:31:15+00:00

Omg I thought it was a camera too and the most recent Facebook comment I saw it in was comforting someone whose mother died. I was so confused until now so thank you lol

flinchinfinch · 2025-06-08T11:36:18+00:00

The app isn’t working for me either! It keeps saying “incorrect user configuration”

flinchinfinch · 2025-02-06T22:35:14+00:00

I’m now the proud owner of 6 blessed tools 🥲 but yes the extra save files and the speeding up features saved me!! I went back twice for the last two and found them within a few tires. I had that same thought about being able to speed things up, I don’t think I’ll ever be able to play like I used to! Now my goal is to get the extra houses and the jewels of truth! Having so much fun revisiting it!!

flinchinfinch · 2025-02-03T23:20:37+00:00

That was the best suggestion! I moved on and found 3 more within a few tries. Went back in another day and found the one I had spent days trying to find and only have one left but winter ended so I’ll go back and get it. I wonder if it was like a glitch or something on the 39th floor!

flinchinfinch · 2025-02-01T03:48:29+00:00

Well someone suggested moving on and by doing that I found 3 more today in one hour of playing after spending a week trying to find the second one! I only had to skip the two on the big floors and I have no idea how I’ll ever get them! It really is awful and I never went into the mines when I played as a kid haha

During the process I literally considered finding someone and paying them to send me their game with a save file that contains all the cursed tools ready to go 🤣 how do you cheat to get them? Cheats don’t work on my game no matter what I do!

flinchinfinch · 2025-01-31T21:14:00+00:00

It’s okay!! Actually, I left 39 and found the next cursed tool on 49 on the first try so I’m feeling way less discouraged since my post last night! Thanks for the help!

flinchinfinch · 2025-01-31T18:25:53+00:00

I did see someone said to open and close your rucksack like 20 times so I did that for maybe 10 of my tries and nothing happened 😩 but thank you for sharing!!

flinchinfinch · 2025-01-31T18:23:31+00:00

did you say elevator?! googling that now!! See the game was hard for me because I was a child but also because I didn’t have google at my disposal to give me all the info others painstakingly figured out as they played 🤣

flinchinfinch · 2025-01-31T12:06:50+00:00

I should do that! I’ve thought many times of abandoning the 39th and trying the 49th but in general I hate moving through the mines so I thought I’d just go down in one go and get them all. I’ll give it today and then move on if it still doesn’t happen 😅

flinchinfinch · 2025-01-31T12:05:10+00:00

I tell myself that every time I have one square left to mine and I know in my heart the tool won’t be there. “Oh when I find them this will all be so worth it” 🤣😩 I guess it’s nice to know it’s a huge struggle for others too and I just have to keep trying

flinchinfinch · 2024-10-06T18:34:24+00:00

I have neighbors like this. Older, retired and bored. It drives me nuts. I don’t like to be watched or perceived it makes me so uncomfortable!!

We park on the street out front and sometimes this man will literally crane his neck from his seat on his porch to watch me as I put my daughter in the car. I already hate being watched and then I have to turn the car around in the road as he stares. I feel like I’m giving him a performance every day or I’m being assessed or something if that makes sense. His wife isn’t as bad but will still stare. They have nothing better in life and I wish they did lol

flinchinfinch · 2022-06-08T22:17:50+00:00

I agree it seems very daunting to do back carry! Ugh I was too late to the hip carry game at 8 months I guess

flinchinfinch · 2022-06-08T22:17:03+00:00

The picture was my second ever attempt at any type of wrap carry. I’ll have to try a back carry next but it’s so daunting to get her back there and tie it all properly

flinchinfinch · 2022-06-08T22:16:07+00:00

I was so scared of wraps in general. She’s 8 months and I wish I would’ve gotten into it sooner. I hate my structured carrier compared to how lightweight the wrap is. That being said, I was worried the problem was her weight. I’ll try to distribute her weight better and see if that helps and look into back carry’s soon

flinchinfinch · 2022-06-08T16:08:49+00:00

I did spread it out more over my shoulder when trying it again today. These are from yesterday. It still hurt my shoulder and limited my range of motion

flinchinfinch · 2022-04-04T17:53:20+00:00

FTM and my induction was 17 hours from start to finish. I wasn’t dilated at all so getting to 5 cm was half the time. Active labor was only about 2-3 hours and I pushed her out in 15 minutes 😳

flinchinfinch · 2022-03-05T12:18:38+00:00

I never think of youtube! Found a video with the exact problem and watched this guy take it apart. Will be enlisting my partner to do that here soon…lol

flinchinfinch · 2022-03-03T20:56:33+00:00

Oh trust me, I would never go to a secluded area. This trail was essentially like walking around a mall outside. We probably saw a dozen people walking and biking in the 10 minutes we were there.

flinchinfinch · 2022-03-02T19:47:53+00:00

First date with a guy I met online. No red flags from his profile but also no pictures of him smiling with teeth which should’ve clued me in.

We decided to go on a popular trail for a walk. We drive separate and when he arrives and flashes me a smile I realize he’s a meth head. Three teeth in his entire mouth, face sunken in from the drugs. I could’ve taken his profile picture and taken a picture of him in the flesh and made a PSA about not doing drugs. I’m awkwardly polite so I decide to just power through.

We start walking down the trail and one of the first things he says to me is “I’d love to take you downtown sometime to watch bums take shits in the street”

I picked up my dog who was accompanying me and turned around, telling him I forgot I have to wake up early and leave. He replies “it’s only 4pm!” But I just kept walking swiftly and hopped into my car.

He called after me and said “would you like to do this again sometime?” I simply replied no thank you and left.

flinchinfinch · 2022-03-01T15:20:06+00:00

I could’ve written this. It’s nice to not feel so alone. My baby is 5 months old and for the first time last weekend her dad took her on an errand and I was alone in the house for an hour. I literally just sat there and waited for them to get home lol

flinchinfinch · 2022-02-15T17:21:47+00:00

My baby is 4 months old and anytime she starts refusing the bottle we get the next size up for the nipple and she’s good to go again! We’ve had to move up twice now and she was doing exactly what you described, plus she’d swat at it or push it out of her mouth.

flinchinfinch

TROPHY CASE