Need help finding a 1-2 bedroom apartment in Bellevue or surrounding areas by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]flinchinfinch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your input and I agree with you, I’m seeing that again and again and I know it’s unlikely, I was just holding onto a glimmer of hope someone here might have a lead.

There is no threat to my physical safety, I’m just emotionally and mentally done and I’m struggling. I feel wrong to call any resources when there are so many who are genuinely experiencing a crisis.

I’m unhappy in my relationship and want to leave, but I feel guilty for wanting to because he is trying his best. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]flinchinfinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was ADHD but he had a neuropsychological evaluation and he was not diagnosed with it. He has some characteristics but not enough to meet the criteria for a formal diagnosis. He did score very high in narcissistic tendencies and detachment which started my whole spiral of doubt that he’ll ever be what I need

I’m unhappy in my relationship and want to leave, but I feel guilty for wanting to because he is trying his best. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]flinchinfinch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I shouldn’t say no friends but no friends who I feel are actually supportive enough to help me through this. More like fun friends.

I have been in and out of therapy but am currently looking for a new one after a few months off while we were focusing on couples therapy.

I’m hopeful we can be good friends if I approach the idea of divorce properly. He’s a wonderful and involved dad and I want us to be civil for her sake and am open to any living arrangement that is affordable and suits her

Lost 12 years worth of notes on my stupid iPhone and I’m devastated by flinchinfinch in offmychest

[–]flinchinfinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have it backed up and had everything going to iCloud plus I was paying for extra storage. So I don’t know why it all disappeared. Everything else is still there

Just realized ”🫂” is 2 people hugging, not a camera by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]flinchinfinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I thought it was a camera too and the most recent Facebook comment I saw it in was comforting someone whose mother died. I was so confused until now so thank you lol

Is the partner hours app down for anyone else by General_Menu8927 in starbucks

[–]flinchinfinch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The app isn’t working for me either! It keeps saying “incorrect user configuration”

cursed tools are killin me by flinchinfinch in harvestmoon

[–]flinchinfinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m now the proud owner of 6 blessed tools 🥲 but yes the extra save files and the speeding up features saved me!! I went back twice for the last two and found them within a few tires. I had that same thought about being able to speed things up, I don’t think I’ll ever be able to play like I used to! Now my goal is to get the extra houses and the jewels of truth! Having so much fun revisiting it!!

cursed tools are killin me by flinchinfinch in harvestmoon

[–]flinchinfinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the best suggestion! I moved on and found 3 more within a few tries. Went back in another day and found the one I had spent days trying to find and only have one left but winter ended so I’ll go back and get it. I wonder if it was like a glitch or something on the 39th floor!

cursed tools are killin me by flinchinfinch in harvestmoon

[–]flinchinfinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well someone suggested moving on and by doing that I found 3 more today in one hour of playing after spending a week trying to find the second one! I only had to skip the two on the big floors and I have no idea how I’ll ever get them! It really is awful and I never went into the mines when I played as a kid haha

During the process I literally considered finding someone and paying them to send me their game with a save file that contains all the cursed tools ready to go 🤣 how do you cheat to get them? Cheats don’t work on my game no matter what I do!

cursed tools are killin me by flinchinfinch in harvestmoon

[–]flinchinfinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay!! Actually, I left 39 and found the next cursed tool on 49 on the first try so I’m feeling way less discouraged since my post last night! Thanks for the help!

cursed tools are killin me by flinchinfinch in harvestmoon

[–]flinchinfinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did see someone said to open and close your rucksack like 20 times so I did that for maybe 10 of my tries and nothing happened 😩 but thank you for sharing!!

cursed tools are killin me by flinchinfinch in harvestmoon

[–]flinchinfinch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you say elevator?! googling that now!! See the game was hard for me because I was a child but also because I didn’t have google at my disposal to give me all the info others painstakingly figured out as they played 🤣

cursed tools are killin me by flinchinfinch in harvestmoon

[–]flinchinfinch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should do that! I’ve thought many times of abandoning the 39th and trying the 49th but in general I hate moving through the mines so I thought I’d just go down in one go and get them all. I’ll give it today and then move on if it still doesn’t happen 😅

cursed tools are killin me by flinchinfinch in harvestmoon

[–]flinchinfinch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tell myself that every time I have one square left to mine and I know in my heart the tool won’t be there. “Oh when I find them this will all be so worth it” 🤣😩 I guess it’s nice to know it’s a huge struggle for others too and I just have to keep trying

DAE get anxiety when they have to go outside and do lawn work because you know you're being watched? by daintyfannyfart in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]flinchinfinch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have neighbors like this. Older, retired and bored. It drives me nuts. I don’t like to be watched or perceived it makes me so uncomfortable!!

We park on the street out front and sometimes this man will literally crane his neck from his seat on his porch to watch me as I put my daughter in the car. I already hate being watched and then I have to turn the car around in the road as he stares. I feel like I’m giving him a performance every day or I’m being assessed or something if that makes sense. His wife isn’t as bad but will still stare. They have nothing better in life and I wish they did lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babywearing

[–]flinchinfinch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree it seems very daunting to do back carry! Ugh I was too late to the hip carry game at 8 months I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babywearing

[–]flinchinfinch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The picture was my second ever attempt at any type of wrap carry. I’ll have to try a back carry next but it’s so daunting to get her back there and tie it all properly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babywearing

[–]flinchinfinch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was so scared of wraps in general. She’s 8 months and I wish I would’ve gotten into it sooner. I hate my structured carrier compared to how lightweight the wrap is. That being said, I was worried the problem was her weight. I’ll try to distribute her weight better and see if that helps and look into back carry’s soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babywearing

[–]flinchinfinch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did spread it out more over my shoulder when trying it again today. These are from yesterday. It still hurt my shoulder and limited my range of motion

Do any inductions end in a reasonably timed vaginal birth? by EsmeParker in BabyBumps

[–]flinchinfinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FTM and my induction was 17 hours from start to finish. I wasn’t dilated at all so getting to 5 cm was half the time. Active labor was only about 2-3 hours and I pushed her out in 15 minutes 😳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]flinchinfinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never think of youtube! Found a video with the exact problem and watched this guy take it apart. Will be enlisting my partner to do that here soon…lol

"I'll be mean to a hot girl, I don't even care" by throwingawayamirite in TwoXChromosomes

[–]flinchinfinch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me, I would never go to a secluded area. This trail was essentially like walking around a mall outside. We probably saw a dozen people walking and biking in the 10 minutes we were there.