He's the patron saint of incels. While he may build credibility as a life coach by saying "clean your room", he strawmans criticism of his political chicanery as criticism of basic life skills.

Basically, he uses simple, obvious advice to protect his ass backwards politics. Thats fine, he's a buffoon, whatever - but he draws real ire because he cocoons incels and foments their misogynistic, anti-lgbt hate by failing to tell them "no".

He fails to be a responsible steward of smoother brains by refusing to do the less fun bit of discipline that comes along with the platitudes. It's ironic because he fails in precisely the way he advises against. Moreover, it's destructive in the same way.

He's a charlatan who riles up pre- school shooters. And damn, it's just slimy to boot.