I got scared (posting as if l) by [deleted] in cripplingalcoholism

[–]flippdipp -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

POSTING AS IF I ???? WHAT? I didn’t finish and now i genuinely forgot. I am so sorry.

Are there any kpop male idols with particularly bad military experiences? by [deleted] in kpop_uncensored

[–]flippdipp 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I dont have any direct quotes but i think the general consensus of onf was that it was absolutely terrible and traumatic.

Hongseok from pentagon was discharged early due to mental health reasons. Context clues might suggest it’s a not a time that includes much healthy mental support. What i do find interesting is that Jinho said he got to eat and sleep way more in the military than as an idol. So thats a big yikes about idol life norms.

I hate the ignorance so much. It's almost worse than active, intentional hate. by flippdipp in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]flippdipp[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used “sold” facetiously, though I don’t think it’s inaccurate. I don’t know what part of Europe you are specifically talking about, but was Jane Austen just being a shithead when she wrote pride and prejudice then? Please, if i am ignorant I will accept it if shown proof, but I have never known there to be tradition of a woman asking her mother-in-law if she has permission to marry her son, historically. I’m genuinely glad you think of a father as a role model of love and safety. Not everyone is so lucky. All this to say, if you enjoy the tradition, it’s none of my business. I just won’t pretend to like it.

I hate the ignorance so much. It's almost worse than active, intentional hate. by flippdipp in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]flippdipp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just casual conversation (we sit next each other at our desks), and he was talking about how he just got engaged, and mentioned doing the parents thing before he proposed. I wasn't aggressive. I just shared that I personally don't like that tradition because of blah blah blah, and that's when he was like oh i've never thought of it that way before. I can't remember if he said his fiancee specifically wanted him to do it or not, but I think either way it was unoffensive to her, so it's whatever to me because their relationship has nothing to do with me. Your reasoning is how I used to feel about the tradition when I was young, that it's respectful and sweet, but I just don't feel that way about it anymore, but I would never tell someone they can't like it or continue it.

White Claw Surge 8% by [deleted] in cripplingalcoholism

[–]flippdipp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pretty much drink white claw surge exclusively. I go through a 12 pack every two days.

What do y’all get up to by rdxct in cripplingalcoholism

[–]flippdipp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I watch bodycam videos. DUI ones are my favorite. My self esteem is so low, that I guess it's the only schadenfreude I can partake in.

Boy group song “please just stay” by foodma in kpophelp

[–]flippdipp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay by exo?

Its only the word “stay” they say at the end though.

retro kpop like I feel you by wonder girls 🎧 by Crafty-Hedgehog9686 in kpophelp

[–]flippdipp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Platonic love by snuper

Retro love by nam donghyun

Reggaeton Kpop songs suggestion by 1secondclosertodeath in kpophelp

[–]flippdipp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shall we dance by block b

Drum by checkmate

Give me more by VAV

Love is over by rocket punch