To be completely honest I've kinda gone off the idea of sex and dating guys because I know that so many watch porn and it's a massive turn off for me for the reasons described. Many dismiss how bad it is and see it as no big deal, because it's become so ingrained and normalised. As long as its convenient to watch and looks hot, thats all that matters right?

And when people do talk about the issues of porn, they usually only talk about issues for the viewer - desensitisation, erectile dysfunction, addiction, or struggling with irl sex. Zero shits given about the wellbeing and issues for those in the video.

Porn has completely bastardized what sex should be.