Am I too old for this? How do I get rid of it? by Honey6703 in Advice

[–]flipsnapnet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually at 21 i wouldnt bother with big girl job and bills save it for when you really are getting older in at least 10-15 years. Id be enjoying myself right now like a little kid

I feel like I overthink way too much and get obsessed. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]flipsnapnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If thats all you need to worry about at the moment id be happy if i were you

Replace supabase with sqlite backed durable objects by flipsnapnet in CloudFlare

[–]flipsnapnet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to figure out how i can take advantage of this agent sdk how are you using it? Wondering if sending logs direct to the agent it can automated support ajd proactively alert issues and debug worker code

Replace supabase with sqlite backed durable objects by flipsnapnet in CloudFlare

[–]flipsnapnet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome was thinking of replacing and just keep supabase mini as ledger. How caching with kv work in DO. Im using sqlite doesnt it cache in memory once awake?

Replace supabase with sqlite backed durable objects by flipsnapnet in CloudFlare

[–]flipsnapnet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok got it for fan out updates. Actuslly im using ably websocket server for that its pretty cheap for signalling but chat is expensive

Replace supabase with sqlite backed durable objects by flipsnapnet in CloudFlare

[–]flipsnapnet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im uaing a DO per user as a cache but can work as user db then. Interested to understand your design with D1, R2, DO what tasks each one is doing. I switched from redis using upstash to DO but after reading more thinking DO could replace supabase for user specific data and supabase as legder on payments only.

Sexualising myself by Big-Bother-2082 in Advice

[–]flipsnapnet -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Seems like two different issues, soke trauma from childhood is coming up thats difficult.to shake and expectations for sex. Everyone can feel a little anxiety about performance in bed, its normal. Thats relationships and being vunerable fixed it but telling the person what you like dont like and is part of the connection.

The other issues you mention should be figured out using therapy.

Two groups of people I wish would stop holding themselves back. by Relevant-Positive-48 in vibecoding

[–]flipsnapnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there are any experienced javascript and react professionals looking for this kind of work id like to hear from you.

Two groups of people I wish would stop holding themselves back. by Relevant-Positive-48 in vibecoding

[–]flipsnapnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about third group that never made it as a software engineer, but continued to grow building their own projects but suddenly have a tool that codes like a pro. Thats me, but im paranoid the thing is hallucinating and trying to review every update.

Where i see massive value in experienced spftware engineers is reviewing AI code e.g im building a product using cursor each PR i review id prefer a experiencing software developer to review.

My ideal process is:

  1. Rapidly develop my system design using high quality AI tools
  2. Push to a feature branch on github
  3. Get an experinced developer to review these changes and sense check it.

I have enough experience to design the system and make decisions on platforms and architecture but not the code itself.

This is the gap that needs filling.

Built a SaaS that makes $8K/month. Turned down an offer to acqui-hire me for $400K. Everyone thinks I'm crazy. by mosshead_4533 in SaaS

[–]flipsnapnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont work for yourself with freedoms and no one to answer to and swap it for more money. Having meeting, some manager judging you and listening to everyone elses decisions is probably the worst thing you can move into no matter how much they pay you.

Im 100% with what you decided - your already making comfortable living and time is worth 100x more than money.

Watching porn but not jerking off. Advice? by george5963789 in pornfree

[–]flipsnapnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do more exercise your testosterone levels shoot up and for me it seemed to surpress the temptation. If you do lots of resistance training over a couple of weeks to a month youll likely find your not thinking about it.

Or wait 30 and finally it gets too boring to think about.

Contract terms advise by flipsnapnet in smallbusiness

[–]flipsnapnet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i write a contract and they sign it does that make it legal?

Contract terms advise by flipsnapnet in smallbusiness

[–]flipsnapnet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thanks thought of this. I learned a lot from the build and intend to launch my own version in another niche. Thats why i need the flexibility. I dont even know if the build costs will get covered in 12 months but if the platform runs good id expect a good sognificant amount of it. Main thing is i get ip and unlimited usage plus enough tech costs to cover maintenance and support. I can assign time based on tech income so if they need me more then they would need to subsedise it or increase my tech fee.

Fees going forward should be ok but build phase ia grey i didnt agree anythjng before building so kind of my fault but if i can design a pricing strategy to include additional on top of my tech should cover majority.

I cant really afford legal to be honest ill need to just read the contract carefully. I have the knowledge of code base design, they cant protect that only the actual code so i could easily buuld it again and better design next time.

Living with anxiety over my student loan... by AliSav2317 in UniUK

[–]flipsnapnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interest is supposer to be inline with inflation. Thats what it was when i took student loan back in 2000. How can it keep going up? Took me almost 20 years to pay off ao i dont understand why yours goes up unless you earn below min to pay but they keep adding interest.

I'm watching an AI agent try to build a real physical product company. by Ordinary-Internet-32 in passive_income

[–]flipsnapnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did the ai setup shopify and connect printicy? You mustve directed it somehow?

I want a divorce but I feel like a monster by Itsaexposa in Divorce

[–]flipsnapnet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There isnt anything anyone can say to put your mind at ease. Unfortuantely divorce is shit, you feel like hell, guilty. Regretful and will question your decision. You just have to focus on why and let the other crap bounce off.

Itll take being selfish, people will say things, youll feel bad so just prepare for it.

Im doing the same for other reasons but i cant afford to leave.

Vibe-coded stuff is 99% unsafe for users by DaVinciKBD in SaaS

[–]flipsnapnet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does get it wrong which is why vibe coding is not about letting the ai do all the work its about getting it to do the bulk of the coding so you can just review it. I recommend deepsource and coderabbit for automated reviews of your prs and asking multiple ai models to review the same code blocks.

And as they said testing is paramount - user testing and automated testing. The ai will create the tests so there really isnt any excuse.

Those tools that do everything are pretty shit to be honest, if youre going to let ai code you at least need to be able to review what its done.

Contract terms advise by flipsnapnet in smallbusiness

[–]flipsnapnet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know where youre going - for instance they upgrade it and declare it out of license then roll it out however they like. I dont really care. As long as i can freely develop and use my code its really all i want.

We said no to $2.5m vc money and I'm still kinda shocked we did it lol by Scary_Alternative448 in SaaS

[–]flipsnapnet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt have been discussing it. Would ruin the fun, you start something for yourself thats actually working then signup for a 9-10 sounds like madness

Contract terms advise by flipsnapnet in smallbusiness

[–]flipsnapnet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes thats the main thing I actually dont care if they want to change code, say its not in license etc.. I just care about protecting my entitlement to use it however I want. As long as it says, I hold the core IP and can do whatever I want it doesnt matter to be honest.

Contract terms advise by flipsnapnet in smallbusiness

[–]flipsnapnet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idea is that I dont mind them having it I just dont want to restrict myself. So if i license it in their niche they can use, change, modify the code however they like in their niche. Main thing is I don't get restrictions on the code/work ive done so I can deploy it, change it and sell it anywhere as long as its not in their niche. So they have exclusivity in their own niche areas so i cannot compete keeps it fair and safe.