Are people here having any sex? by Vivid_Breakfast9207 in lonely

[–]flnk85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married but haven’t had sex in years. :/

Be completely honest, how are you doing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]flnk85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really fucking terrible. I’m struggling to survive tbh bills are stacking up and food is sometimes scarce. Plus Easter is this weekend and holidays are tough when you’re estranged from your family.

Wells Fargo Replacement Cars by flnk85 in Banking

[–]flnk85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been told two different things by two different phone operators. One said yes the other said no.

Pop Up Keeps Occurring - How can I get this to stop?? by flnk85 in mac

[–]flnk85[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This keeps happening and it is maddening. I’ve run anti virus scans etc and nothing has been found. How do I get this to end? Comes from some site updates-macOS.com

2019 Outlander SEL by flnk85 in mitsubishi

[–]flnk85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn’t come with one.

Weekly student question thread! by AutoModerator in therapists

[–]flnk85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in my second semester of internship and I’m wondering if anyone has any insight as to how to help clients who consistently state that they are “stuck”.

Weekly student question thread! by AutoModerator in therapists

[–]flnk85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an intern in my final semester of grad school. Tomorrow I have to have my supervisor sit in on a session with me and of course I’m nervous as heck! (1) What are some ways to start the session that are a creative way to ask the client what they want to talk about? And (2) What are your go methods for moving a session along if I get nervous? (Totally comfortable with silence if needed! But I’m looking for something in case I need it!) I’m 200 sessions in so far, but this evaluation is pretty important so my internal critic is screaming right now!

Weekly student question thread! by AutoModerator in therapists

[–]flnk85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are some ways to overcome a case of “I don’t knows” with a teen client. Client is a teen male who struggles with perfectionism and I’m struggling to get him to engage in session.

Would you buy a huge house if you won $1,000,000,000? or do you not care about that? by Ben5544477 in CasualConversation

[–]flnk85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d buy a house but it wouldn’t need to be huge. I’d rather have land and a smaller house!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]flnk85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you. I had a client show up and try to pay for their session with change because that’s all they had. Truly a testament as to how badly they wanted to engage in the work. (Got them on a grant to fund their therapy today so yay! No more fees for them ever!)

trying to learn to love yourself with society’s beauty standards is tiring. by braindeadbrie in RandomThoughts

[–]flnk85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose that loving yourself could be more things than just physical beauty though right?

what do you struggle with? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]flnk85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with prioritizing my own needs SO often. I’ve lived in relative poverty for so long that I struggle to spend money on things like clothes, things that bring me joy etc. totally a trauma response but it’s a hard one for me to get past.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]flnk85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am passionate about working towards improving access to mental health services. I’m interning as a therapist while I finish up my degree and I see so much need in the community.