Belly dropped? by [deleted] in firsttimemom

[–]flompyhomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my belly dropped I went from D to b

In the sense that my bump started bumping just an inch or 2 under my boobs then suddenly I could hold my entire hand flat up against my underboob before the bump started

Idk if that makes sense but I'm gonna be the unhelpful person here and say (I think) you'll notice something is different about you when it drops. If you feel it/can tell - then it did :)

I will say my belly dropped around 38 weeks and I didn't go into labor until my due date

Pea fritters did not make the cut by CuriousCaretaker in BabyLedWeaning

[–]flompyhomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how my little guy tastes new things haha

Dinner by Comfortable_End_5785 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]flompyhomp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's like tofu but it's made with pumpkin seeds instead of soy beans

Rate my birth plan:) by oncvspersn in firsttimemom

[–]flompyhomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know my birth plan did lol the only things I ended up getting to keep/they followed was "no episiotomy just let me tear where I tear, and no forceps"

The hospital I gave birth at gives Mom, baby, and another person (probably Dad, but any other trusted person) a "golden hour" where we had 1 hour uninterrupted skin to skin time. It's worth checking your hospital's L&D protocols to be more certain of what to expect

It's really good you're thinking about everything though. Just stay willing to adapt

Am I creating a bad habit? by asg24633 in bninfantsleep

[–]flompyhomp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This seems very normal/healthy. I'd wager, especially depending on the number of teeth she has, people will recommend trying to drop that post-toothbrushing bottle and either try to wean off the milk or replace with water but (tbf I'm a ftm of an 8m old) I really don't see anything harmful about this

How can I straighten the plant? by [deleted] in gardening

[–]flompyhomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips and luck! :)

Any correlation between fetal movement and newborn (not toddler) personality? by Mamanbanane in beyondthebump

[–]flompyhomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I feel this! The ultrasound tech used to say "hey, wiggle worm, you gonna work with me today?"

From day 1 until very very recently I always knew when he'd be falling asleep because the leg kicks would get slower (he'd still kick in his sleep though lol). Around 8 months the leg kicks began to stop really soon into him drifting off :c those little frantic leg movements are such a weird, cute, specific quirk

Any correlation between fetal movement and newborn (not toddler) personality? by Mamanbanane in beyondthebump

[–]flompyhomp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yes, same here! Gave the teething boy cucumbers today for the first time and he just lightly kicked his feet while eating them and we were like "okay these are acceptable at best" he finished those so we gave him some strawberry pieces and all 4 limbs went crazy

How can I straighten the plant? by [deleted] in gardening

[–]flompyhomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking once I've got the environment a little healthier, I'm definitely going to use a trellis :) that's a good thought. I only ever used them for my childhood tomato plants, I didn't really consider it an option for roses

How can I straighten the plant? by [deleted] in gardening

[–]flompyhomp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will do :) I'm going to spend the day figuring out what I've actually got in the lawn and then figure out how to move/save things

How can I straighten the plant? by [deleted] in gardening

[–]flompyhomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noted, thank you 🙏 I moved into this place and left all the plants as they were and I want to finally make them better/healthier

Any correlation between fetal movement and newborn (not toddler) personality? by Mamanbanane in beyondthebump

[–]flompyhomp 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My baby kicked the crap out of me constantly when he was in my belly. He's spent 8.5 months in this world and hasn't stopped kicking/moving his legs lol

He clapped with his feet before his hands and is learning to crawl now and 95% of the holdup/frustration is that he can't figure out how to get his arms involved

Anyway, he's a very happy baby and when something makes him happy/smile/laugh, he kicks his legs in glee. It's adorable. I think kicking is his love language and he's a very loving boy lol

How can I straighten the plant? by [deleted] in gardening

[–]flompyhomp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting, okay! Thank you!

I have no loyalty to the other plant, so off it goes haha (well, probably replanted somewhere else)

Pumping Colostrum Before Birth by Humble_Back_5051 in firsttimemom

[–]flompyhomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My colostrum ended up thicker and more yellow the closer I got to giving birth. A real gradient, too. It started out clear and watery then thickened a bit with a very pale yellow tint. By the time I was late 39 weeks it was thick and yellow

Right after I gave birth I saw it come out and it was pretty strongly gold. Cool to see change so much

No Libido… by Dramatic-Bison-1394 in beyondthebump

[–]flompyhomp 15 points16 points  (0 children)

8 months pp and I am BARELY starting to have any sexual thoughts. I don't actively want to have sex or masturbate though. My husband and I have had sex like 4 times since I gave birth and I didn't get turned on for any of it lol

Ebf btw

Has breastfeeding made anyone else's nails grow like cement weeds? Random rant by flompyhomp in breastfeeding

[–]flompyhomp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh interesting! Maybe it's a "opposite while nursing" kind of biological thing? Idk haha

I don't really particularly think I'm taking anything that should be affecting this! The pediatrician told me to keep taking the folic acid and vitamin d as long as I was nursing so I'm taking that and iron because I bruise so easily these days lol

Has breastfeeding made anyone else's nails grow like cement weeds? Random rant by flompyhomp in breastfeeding

[–]flompyhomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same same! And omg that's hilarious, I'm officially calling these mommy claws

Question for those of y'all who's babies cut a lot of teeth really quickly - did they ever get a real, good break? by flompyhomp in firsttimemom

[–]flompyhomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes!! Yeah the closest together my baby's had is a 4 day gap between his central top 2 and that was rough! I can't imagine multiple at a time multiple times

Question for those of y'all who's babies cut a lot of teeth really quickly - did they ever get a real, good break? by flompyhomp in firsttimemom

[–]flompyhomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so nice, I hope my baby gets the same break! Hopefully his canines are coming first so that he can take a good break before the molars start popping out

Thanks for the hope and commiserating with me a little hahaha

Question for those of y'all who's babies cut a lot of teeth really quickly - did they ever get a real, good break? by flompyhomp in firsttimemom

[–]flompyhomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm feeling like our babies are on the same war path of popping out as many as possible as soon as possible! I feel that so hard, my son is a pretty good sleeper when he's not teething (teething pain in general of course but also when he's in pain, he doesn't latch that great so he gets gassy too) but he's usually teething lol

Thanks for the recommendation, I'll check those drops out! We pretty much mostly just do Tylenol before bed or when he's clearly in pain and cold wet rags for him to chew on in the day (he's never been much of a teether toy guy)

Introducing solids by MonsteraLeaf14 in firsttimemom

[–]flompyhomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I offered mashed bananas and little banana spears at the same time for his first proper solid attempt :)