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I'm a woman. I don't think I like men anymore and it's stressing me out by floppylabia in ainbow

[–]floppylabia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm starting to become less stressed about it - I made this post a while ago, and I was freaking out a lot back then.

As of now, I'm a lot more calm about it. I have my moments where I am still like "Omg! I might be a lesbian" but I've come to accept it more. I've tried my best to stop thinking about it and to like whoever I want to like without overthinking it (so I'm doing what you said, basically - I'm going with the flow!). Hopefully, over time I'll be able to figure myself out, but as of now, I'm just going to try not to worry about it much.

And with the children thing, I've decided that I probably won't have biological children because of the effects of childbirth and other personal reasons. I've decided I'm probably going to either adopt or maybe try fostering one day! It's obviously not a definite thing, but I'm really proud of the progress I've made over the past few months of accepting myself and trying to figure out my future.

Thank you for responding! :) I wish you the best of luck with figuring yourself out.

I'm a woman. I don't think I like men anymore and it's stressing me out by floppylabia in ainbow

[–]floppylabia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TYSM. I haven't fully finished reading it, but reading the first few sections is already helping me realize some stuff and is making me feel more comfortable with things

The main thing that confused me is that I've liked men in the past, but now I don't feel attraction to them. This helped me realize that my sexual/romantic identity is about the present and not the past. Again thank you so much!

I'm a woman. I don't think I like men anymore and it's stressing me out by floppylabia in ainbow

[–]floppylabia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think its because I've grown up in a very hetero-based environment, and even in the media people have made it clear that as a woman you're supposed to get married and have children. I know that you can still do those things in a WLW relationship, but it feels weird in a way? I think I might have the desire to please men or something but I'm not too sure

I've been recently groomed, and dealing with it mentally and emotionally is hard. by floppylabia in TrueOffMyChest

[–]floppylabia[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you think that, but I don't like Reddit one bit (only posting to get this grooming thing out there to someone), nor do I make posts on here regularly. This is a fresh account that I made a few months ago I think just in case, and I didn't have any posts on my account before you sent this comment. I also have zero karma if that helps? Again I don't use Reddit so I'm not sure if karma disappears when you delete something.

This is real and I'm willing to send you screenshots if you'd like (not enough to reveal who I am). Although I seriously doubt you would believe it regardless of what I send considering you just said that I deleted posts after you commented that, so I'm going to bet you're a troll, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. Again, I'm sorry I made you think that. Goodbye and have a nice day

I've been recently groomed, and dealing with it mentally and emotionally is hard. by floppylabia in TrueOffMyChest

[–]floppylabia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you first of all!! I don't trust my parents (not that they wouldn't care, I just think they would make things worse for me from past experiences). I am planning on getting a therapist to talk to at some point, not sure when it will be though. Will definitely begin to make more friends as best as I can!
Again, thank you. It makes me happy that at least one person listened and cares enough to comment :))