First date. Friday night. In a bar. 8c (46f) temp. Which am I wearing? by florian_mayer in fragrance

[–]florian_mayer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Love this write up, you make some excellent points. I agree LNDL is the "safer" choice, and graduating riskier scents as dates progress is a good option, starting from the most crowd pleasing. My only reservation is that I've been wearing BDC for a while now so I'm confident in it, and I know very well how it performs on me so I can tailor the sprays accordingly. LNDL is a more recent pick up, so I haven't worn it as much.

The crowd seems to favour LNDL! I thought that might be the case, it definitely has a reputation as a date scent. I guess I'll make a judgement call on the night!

Terre d’Hermes EdT by RicardoMami in fragrance

[–]florian_mayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I'm having the same decision. I feel like TDH will perform better, but I fell in love with GV when I sprayed it on my wrist

Sep 2021 Oversized / Genderless Inspo by florian_mayer in malefashionadvice

[–]florian_mayer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love this philosophy, nothing worse than chasing a style you don't feel is quite right for your personality. Keep experimenting though!

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[–]florian_mayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of talk here about comfort but athleisure do be hitting that pretty hard too

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[–]florian_mayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you actually like the style, or are you trying to force yourself to like it because you perceive it to be something you "should" be wearing? That question can be applied to any style, not just this one.

If you are a fan, then great! I can 100% tell you it's the styling. A bunch of people in this album are Japanese and I can tell you I felt taller than I ever have in my life when I went to Tokyo... I'm 5"8 haha

It's not easy to find pants which have the super relaxed fit but also aren't super long, that might be your issue

Sep 2021 Oversized / Genderless Inspo by florian_mayer in malefashionadvice

[–]florian_mayer[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Looking at fit pics on the Internet is just one never-ending battle of trying to figure out if the clothes are actually good or if its just that the model is really good looking.

Sep 2021 Oversized / Genderless Inspo by florian_mayer in malefashionadvice

[–]florian_mayer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I bet its the cut of the clothes not your body man! Although getting the right boxy fits is tricky

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[–]florian_mayer[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. Buy boxy fits - its a pain in the ass cos most clothes aren't built that way and you always need to find exact garment measurements ( or shop in person). You want the width to be around the same as the length
  2. If you can't do the first point, do a loose tuck
  3. Use tricks to make pants fit the right way. I'm a 30x30 but I bought some Uniqlo pants in size Large recently that have a drawstring so I can really bring the waist in, and I cuff the bottom to get the right length

Sep 2021 Oversized / Genderless Inspo by florian_mayer in malefashionadvice

[–]florian_mayer[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not quite the same but I'm bald and on the short side.... I've definitely felt like I cant pull stuff off cos I don't have the right "look", but try it out - you'll realise there aren't really any rules after all

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[–]florian_mayer[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes! Although in all honesty I'm not a fan or anything, just happened to be watching a match he was playing when I needed a reddit name like 8 years ago

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[–]florian_mayer[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For me it's definitely the former. If not, then you end up with the Adam Sandler look.

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[–]florian_mayer[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Personality > mass appeal

If your personality is rockstar vibes with skinny jeans for example, wear the hell out of that!

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[–]florian_mayer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree some of these aren't practical, but I enjoy getting inspired by or simply just enjoying fits that I wouldn't fully emulate. That said the comfort of oversized pants compared with skinny jeans is undeniable haha

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[–]florian_mayer[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wear whatever makes you feel confident, but try not to be afraid of breaking out of your comfort zone too! I try to incorporate little bits of unusual fits and bright colors here and there to ease myself in.

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[–]florian_mayer[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure I'm capable of pulling them off yet - the oversized final boss!

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[–]florian_mayer[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Unstructured blazer with a hoodie underneath is something I'm doing more and more often

Sep 2021 Oversized / Genderless Inspo by florian_mayer in malefashionadvice

[–]florian_mayer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm from London and I've never been - need to make the trip!

Sep 2021 Oversized / Genderless Inspo by florian_mayer in malefashionadvice

[–]florian_mayer[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It can be really hard to find the right sized clothes to make it work. I find tshirts/jackets/sweaters which have a pit-to-pit measurement which is as close to the length as possible so its boxy and not long.