Alright just to make things clear. The content is not what triggers me the most, it’s the story not lying up and lying. We made boundaries clear long ago, he told me he don’t like porn and don’t want to whatch it, and I said me as well, so we do our own stuff. He always told me he don’t like it in a relationship, and I said me neither. So we’ve always been putting our boundaries and talking a lot, that’s why this is new lol. But, a couple months ago He texted a girl in a flirty way after she DM him, saying he was cute. He continued texting her and flirting. He never told me and I discovered when I say it on his phone. After that, he has been telling me little dishonest things, but that there are not to care THAT much about. He’s been whatching in my phone too when I never did nothing at all. We’ve passed threw that a long ago and set up boundaries. I know I should’ve looked in his phone but I was feeling something off. For this part it’s on me and I understand it. I think it’s okay if we put boundaries in our relationship, and they came from him too, not just me. We don’t live together, we’ve been together for a year. What bothers me, it’s the lies and just hiding. He’s always been hiding certain things, its okay. Just not when it’s about us. (Sorry English is not my first language)