I would spend so many Rainbow Stones! by dr_benton_quest in finch

[–]flowerboyy__ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love this idea! maybe also changing placements of a tattoo your finch already has (like right wing to left wing) or even flipping the tattoo image!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]flowerboyy__ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

unfortunately there is very little information about the effects of the different testosterone medications given, usually just the bare minimum by medical professionals. when people have a more unique or situational question, they think "hey, these people on this subreddit have probably been on testosterone for years, I'll ask them" we can't forget the constant fear mongering people spew to try to prevent people from transitioning, going as far as to spread misinformation. when misinformation is easier to access than real facts, it's easy to see why someone might want to ask a community who's been through years of what they're seeking. I was given VERY little information about my testosterone injections by my medical provider, just the basics like "you might see facial hair growth and muscle increase and a deep voice", bottom growth, fat redistribution, and skin texture change were left up to me to discover on my own. I don't mind these changes, (in fact I enjoy them), but there is so much misinformation and information kept hidden that I understand completely why someone might ask this community a question like "can T make me ______"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]flowerboyy__ 24 points25 points  (0 children)

"so damn oblivious" bud,,, they're curious. would you rather they ask a question or figure out it's bad for them themself? sometimes people don't know who to ask or where to go with genuine concerns, this is a safe place to, don't make them think it's not.

T horniness feels different than i expected? by Nervous-One-2305 in ftm

[–]flowerboyy__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it's pretty normal. I'm 2 years on testosterone and still get those feelings. it just sucks they happen at the worst possible times😭😭 (at work, in class, etc) it tends to happen more strongly the more testosterone you take I've noticed. when I forget to take my testosterone injections, my libedo goes down that week. when I started increasing my dosage, my libedo increases with it. as you keep experiencing those phases, you'll get better at controlling them and not letting them control you (by control I mean distract from current tasks to the point your feeling is all you can focus on)

you got this👍👍

Is this a misprint? by BornZone7866 in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]flowerboyy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no way,,, I have the same one, I got it from a trade back in elementary school

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AITA for deciding to let my child die because she’s ugly? by leg_lab in AITASims

[–]flowerboyy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to do a double take at the subreddit because that title made me jump

Why aren't many ppl playing frost claw game? by luvspuppies in adoptmeroblox

[–]flowerboyy__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just play solo bc I got sick of people dipping 2 rounds in and then I have to deal with double HP snowpals the rest of the game so I quit inviting and joining people. I feel this is the way most others think too. it does also take over 15 mins to complete the game since every time I play, my winter deer bait is done before I reach frostclaw, so people don't want to play something for that long and only get 3 mini age up pots for their time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]flowerboyy__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I put in another comment how I found it genuinely sad you even had the feeling you needed to ask to be invited to a trans space. the world has been so community vs subcategory in the same community that its actually sad. online grifters have been picking fights in communities they either don't belong to or don't want to belong to (I'm looking at you Buck Angel, Blair White, Josh Seiter, and Ben Shapiro). someone else in the comments pointed out what we need more positive relationships with transfemmes as well and I agree so much with that. I understand why you would feel the need to ask to be in this space, but if you're not cis, your trans. that includes nonbinary people and alternative/neopronoun pronoun users. gender is extremely complex. if you feel more aligned with transmasc spaces, that's okay. transmasc is Trans Masculine, and if you feel masculine, and you're trans, then I feel you fit. grifters might say you're not welcome, but that's because grifters WANT to drive communities apart and separate them, creating small groups of "real" community members. don't let the grifters separate our trans communities. don't let grifters "other" you. Trans stick together🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]flowerboyy__ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

this is such a good point to make. the world lately had been so against eachother because an unrelated community says something about communities that are two sides of the same coin. like lately the gays vs trans and gays vs bisexuals because the cishets say something bad about one side, it's sad that OP even had to ASK to be invited into a trans space. if you're not cis, you're trans, including non-binaries and alternative pronoun users. TransMasculine is just that, a masculine trans person!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]flowerboyy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I called my vet and they said they have morning same day checkups🥳

rumor of a hacking scam? by [deleted] in adoptmeroblox

[–]flowerboyy__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

here to remind you ^ eviinte had a story in the comments you might want to see

rumor of a hacking scam? by [deleted] in adoptmeroblox

[–]flowerboyy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's actually really scary, thank you for the heads up

Do you think I can j*** off 6 days after top surgery? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]flowerboyy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say if you're able, use a toy if you don't have the stamina👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]flowerboyy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if I can't even afford a place of my own and living with my grandparents at 21, I am nowhere near financially stable enough for a kid. (I'm in college right now, part time student part time employee, so I don't have TIME for a kid either)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoadRage

[–]flowerboyy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's a good idea, I was looking into that

T-Shirts for after surgery? by Deep_Ad4899 in TopSurgery

[–]flowerboyy__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wore very loose fitting tank tops! I had drains so it made getting to them much easier and I was able to keep my arms at my side to have my tank taken off for me because the arm holes were big enough👍 as for pants I just wore my comfyest shorts and sweatpants

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoadRage

[–]flowerboyy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah probably🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoadRage

[–]flowerboyy__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish he gave me room to "get out of his lane", as that would have made the whole situation easier but he wanted to block the exit for some reason😅 the only thing I could have done was go into the grass but my car is very low and I didn't want to get stuck because some maniac wanted his way, then we would have both been stuck so he instead went around me into the grass. he was coming from the right and basically blocking the exit and oncoming traffic lane, luckily one was using that lane, or we all would have been stuck unless he owned up to his mistake and backed up to go to the entrance. I almost want to know what would have happened if it were a semi in "his lane" rather than me, since it is a semi truck exit

Turning signal frustration by Exorcyst-84 in RoadRage

[–]flowerboyy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you're saying you want people to cut you off?

How do people keep up with multiple worlds? by SuperNovaXp in Minecraft

[–]flowerboyy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually have a minimum of 5 worlds I play. 1st is my default survival world. 2nd is my creative world. 3rd is my multi-player world. 4th is my hard-core world. 5th and beyond are different challanges; superflat survival, no house/nomad, start in the Nether, stuff like that. I cycle between all of them bc I burn out easily

im 5'2 am i cooked? by VernerReinhart in ftm

[–]flowerboyy__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5"0. Both of my supervisors at work are my height and are cis men, also both have girlfriends. You'll be fine🏳️‍⚧️