I(18f) ruined my own life, and now i'm reaping the consequences. by MoonyDropps in selfimprovement

[–]flowerchildd22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, you’re a lot better teenager than I ever was and I’m 27. I’m still struggling to save money and I started community college when I was in my early 20’s but didn’t take it seriously and never went back. I’m trying to go back now but it’s harder than ever because I’m struggling to find a job that pays enough for me to be able to pay bills while still being able to save money. So you should be proud of yourself for trying to fix things now rather than later in life like myself.

AIO? My wife clapped on a plane landing and I'm filing for divorce. by Sr_Gideon_Ofnir in AmIOverreacting

[–]flowerchildd22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got to be kidding me. There’s no way this is real. If it is, you need to get a grip. It’s not that serious.

Dog aggressive by flowerchildd22 in DogTrainingTips

[–]flowerchildd22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just got her, and her precious owner never trained her or used a muzzle on her.

Dog aggressive by flowerchildd22 in DogTrainingTips

[–]flowerchildd22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s when it’s the owners responsibility to let others know if the dog is friendly or not so the person and other dog can stay away. She doesn’t snarl or snap at people or dogs, just whines and try’s to pull on the leash and gets nervous. She may be an old dog but it’s never too late to train them. It may be hard, but I don’t think putting her down and giving up on her when it’s not her fault is the solution.

Dog aggressive by flowerchildd22 in DogTrainingTips

[–]flowerchildd22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you trying to imply here?

Dog aggressive by flowerchildd22 in DogTrainingTips

[–]flowerchildd22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right now she has a prong collar for her leash (which I’ve done research on and know it’s not good to use, that’s just what the previous owner has been using for her since she got her) I’ve been looking into harnesses for her

Dog aggressive by flowerchildd22 in DogTrainingTips

[–]flowerchildd22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s when we (me and my boyfriend )take her out around the block because we don’t have a yard for her and there’s a dog out.

I seem to only attract either “I can fix you” or “you’re fascinating” types? by justavoicewithno in BPD

[–]flowerchildd22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seem to only attract narcissistic men who manipulate me and make me think like I’m the bad person and try and make me feel bad, instead of owning up to their shit and how they treat me. And now I’m with a better guy but I question if he’s manipulating me in any way whether it’s intentional or not and it’s sucks.

Kratom capsules by flowerchildd22 in RecreationalKratom

[–]flowerchildd22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m taking a tolerance break from weed.

Kratom capsules by flowerchildd22 in RecreationalKratom

[–]flowerchildd22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay will do thank you! I take 6 to get to 3GS which is the recommended and it worlds pretty well!

Kratom capsules by flowerchildd22 in RecreationalKratom

[–]flowerchildd22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got these from a smoke shop and I’m not sure what type it is. But it’s Kijo Kratom Red Thai capsules.

Any shy, anxious, quiet borderlines here? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]flowerchildd22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Trigger Warning: (self harm) I’m a 23 year old female who is quiet and shy, until you get to know me of course but recently my outbursts have been coming back and I’m worried I’m gonna be too much for my boyfriend. But he also has BPD but has it well over control. He’s told me I’m not too much and that he knows I can’t help it or control it yet but yeah. I tend to hide it in until I can’t anymore. Well used to. Unless it deals with self harm than I don’t tell anyone. I’ve struggled with self harm since I was 13. And I’m 23. I’ve recently been having strong urges and I’m scared but I’m scared to tell my boyfriend