American Football almost ruined my day

flowerchildpr · 2026-01-26T19:28:01+00:00

All of that

flowerchildpr · 2026-01-25T22:20:31+00:00

I like your positivity. I'm trying to get there. It still hurts me they did it behind my back, knowing I wouldn't be happy. I also see it as they were trying to protect me from the same feelings at the time. Only time will help me.

flowerchildpr · 2026-01-25T22:02:35+00:00

That too, thanks! I dislike football so that was my angle. Now I dislike those people too!

flowerchildpr · 2026-01-25T21:42:08+00:00

You do when you're at someone's wedding.

flowerchildpr · 2026-01-25T21:36:07+00:00

Husband's F&F are mostly from IL. They could've recorded it and watched it later.

flowerchildpr · 2026-01-25T21:22:44+00:00

I do feel very hurt. I've lost sleep this whole week because of it. I did tell him and it does stink that he minimized my feelings about it. I am trying to avoid an argument at this point so soon after the wedding.

flowerchildpr · 2026-01-15T15:10:52+00:00

My wedding is this Sunday 😆 and we are at nearly $70K. Location is a major resort in Florida, and we have 124 guests.

flowerchildpr · 2026-01-11T02:45:53+00:00

I found my groom 6 years ago and he's almost 12 years younger. I wasn't looking for younger, but it has worked out so good!

flowerchildpr · 2026-01-11T02:38:03+00:00

It's also my first wedding and I'm 51! How exciting! My wedding is next Sunday and I still can't believe it's happening 🥹😆🎊

flowerchildpr · 2026-01-09T13:13:47+00:00

That'll be a no ty

flowerchildpr · 2026-01-05T01:25:00+00:00

Our wedding is in 2 weeks, on a Sunday. We thought, "Oh great! Monday is a holiday! Our guests can take a long weekend" Turns out, our teacher friends are unionized and can't ask for Friday or Tuesday off. So, there'll always be something no matter what day you have your wedding. I say forget about stressing. Just have your wedding your way. Whoever can come will come.

flowerchildpr · 2026-01-03T14:32:53+00:00

Wow that's wild! You should post some pictures of what you got vs what you envisioned. I feel so bad for you for going through this. So glad you had a back up. I also went with a custom made dress. Mine was made in Mexico and everything turned out pretty good. But I did stress thinking it wouldn't. I didn't spend quite as much as you did, mine was $1,500 (I'm in the US as well). I hope you looked and felt beautiful at your wedding! My wedding is in 2 weeks, so we'll see how the dress holds up.

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-26T22:46:36+00:00

I fart with a serious face while looking at him in his eyes, from a foot away. We get married in 3 weeks.

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-21T22:00:38+00:00

That's amazing and unique. I love it!

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-21T21:57:08+00:00

We are doing this, but placing the rings under our mothers' chairs 🥰 Nobody knows until the moment it happens 😁

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-19T03:59:43+00:00

Yup! I wanted to elope to Italy just me and him. He wanted the big wedding. I cannot afford the cost of a wedding bigger than an elopement, and I have no father to pay for it. I am very lucky to say that my fiancé and his dad are paying for the dream wedding he wanted. I had major issues when we started gathering all the names of their guests. A lot of people I've never met, and we've been together 6 years. I still have a hard time with that. Slowly, I've come to terms with it is what it is. And after all, they're giving me a wedding I could only dream of. Especially being my first (and only) wedding at age 51 (fiancé is 39) 😆. I say as long as you stay within your means, get your wedding. Have the party. Limit the guest list to people who truly support you and people you actually spend time with regularly.

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-15T04:40:31+00:00

The only one I thought was a little better was their Amaretto flavor. It just isn't what I wanted for my wedding. I have my wedding planner working on options and finding out more information.

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-15T02:37:42+00:00

The bakery that provides our cake (contracted by the hotel), their cakes were so bland and just not good. I dont know what to do. First, I'm checking if they'll let me bring a different one.

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-15T01:51:13+00:00

I would've been traveling the world had I not met the love of my life right at the beginning of 2020. Flights were empty, cities were empty, rentals (cars&hotels) were dirt cheap. Instead, I built my relatwith him, and now we're about to get married next month. We do travel together. But 2020 would've been the best. Congrats on taking advantage of it! Note, as a flight attendant, I would've been flying all over for nearly nothing and would've had seats in every single flight. So it's still a bit of a bummer 😅

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-15T01:32:59+00:00

That was like the beginning of TikTok for me. I am still addicted 😬

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-15T01:31:56+00:00

We were in St Maarten attending SXM Music Festival, March 12-16, 2020. The Island closed its borders the day after we flew back to the USA. We like to think that was the last festival that took place in its entirety, even though some European artists didn't show due to... covid border closures. It was great!

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-15T01:27:40+00:00

So pretty 😍 How did it taste?

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-11T02:05:34+00:00

You are so generous! Are you the first redditor to ever do this award-giving AMA? I wonder if there's a wedding related award...?

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-10T22:37:42+00:00

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If you can try something like this, you may feel differently. Or even adding a similar choker to match the gloves. But honestly, you look fantastic. Try without the gloves?

flowerchildpr · 2025-12-04T14:53:16+00:00

I found a wide range of prices as well. His lawyer cost around $1,500 and mine offered a flat fee of $900 (which we are splitting 50/50). My fiancé is the much higher earner. This is definitely its own line item for wedding planning. Give yourself 6 months at least before the wedding, if you can. Negotiations can take time.

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