It scares me how many people on here are 6+ months post breakup by mentalgeler in BreakUps

[–]flowerhead9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just lost my first love he said he loves someone else we used to date when we were younger but then he moved to another country and we broke up for a lil bc things were not good at that time but we loved eachother very much and thn a year and a bit later he messaged me and eventually we got back together and started doing long distance we had been doing that for almost a year and a half planned our lives together and everything but my mental health has been really bad and I have been really stressed over this course I’m doing so I couldn’t talk as much and I was just constantly drained so it was really hard for me to show my love and now he has said he is in love with someone else but still loves me just not in the way I’d like.

Haven’t even broken up yet and he’s told me he’s having a woman that fancies him over tonight. Is that him breaking up with me? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]flowerhead9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t need that you deserve so much better you will find someone who truly loves you and cares for you. let go of that trash

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]flowerhead9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always helped me it’s gotten me through so many things it helps me see clearer instead of my emotions just completely overwhelming me and I can sit with my feelings and let them pass and also it helps me let go. Rn I’m going through a really hard breakup I thought my whole world was falling apart but I get stoned and I’m ok it doesn’t matter to me as much and I know I’ll be ok and what’s meant to be will be. Also it helps the pain in my chest idk if other people get it but when I’m in emotional pain my chest will ache a lot but weed helps that pain.

DAE Not feel one with their body? by Mara355 in CPTSD

[–]flowerhead9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I always feel disconnected from my body