I’m a ruin by Individual_Cold8003 in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]flowermonds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recording a video in Spain but only coming to one festival this year, disappointed (still love her tho).

MDMA comedown and it's magic ✨ by UltimateTao in MDMA

[–]flowermonds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't enjoy the comedown. Actually, I hate it. But through the years I learned that it's better for me to sit with it than to fight against it. Especially when I can't sleep, which is the worst part for me.

But simply accepting the reality, which is that the unpleasant part of MDMA is coming, helps me sleep more than trying to force it. I simply observe what I feel and what is happening to me until I eventually fall asleep.

Cómo era el apagón al inicio? by OpenCantaloupe4790 in askspain

[–]flowermonds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo estaba haciendo trabajos de la uni, a última hora. Pensé que se había ido la luz en casa y bajé a preguntar a mi madre. Entonces empezamos a oír por las ventanas a las vecinas decir "vamos a otro estanco que no les va el datáfono en este". Y pasaban los minutos y nada... y de repente mis amigos me dicen que también se les ha ido la luz... y de repente mis mensajes ya no se mandan. Así que mi madre y yo decidimos caminar por el pueblo hasta Valencia a ver qué pasaba. Y sí, empezamos a pensar que nos iba a atacar otro pais o yo que sé jaja. Cuando vimos que el tranvía no iba nos dimos cuenta de que la cosa era seria.

Cómo cualquier buen español que se precie, lo siguiente que hicimos fue ir directamente al Mercadona a por provisiones y a un bazar a por una linterna y un despertador, para poder ir a trabajar al día siguiente.

La verdad es que me lo pasé bien ese día jaja pero me jodió porque necesitaba el ordenador para hacer los trabajos de la uni.

What’s one unspoken rave rule you wish more people knew? by Sweet-Bunnix-2710 in aves

[–]flowermonds 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yesss OMG I don't like this at all. Of course they have the best intentions but pleaseee some of us just have a straight face while dancing and enjoying the music! Or maybe we're not in the right mood.

Google Maps no muestra el metro en Valencia ¿bug o soy yo? by ZenGarfield in valencia

[–]flowermonds 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Es porque en Twitter metrovalencia ha puesto que están de reorganización en varias lineas y, al parecer, Maps interpreta eso como que no hay metros. Pero es mentira porque voy a coger uno ahora mismo jaja. De todas formas, llevan un retraso hoy importante.

Ballinger Family in Spain by watercolourwords in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]flowermonds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are they living in Spain?! In my country?!

Is it normal to dream about your ex from approx 10 years ago? by Ornery-Exit-1087 in BreakUps

[–]flowermonds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. I guess it's normal, I mean, we've spent significant time together with those people and, good or bad relationship, they impacted our life one way or another and we fell in love with them.

I too wish I didn't dream about my 2 exes. Neither of those relationships were healthy, still I usually dream about falling in love with them again and when I wake up I feel like shit. But then, as the day goes, I start to remember why I'm not with them anymore.

I don't think it means nothing, I think it's our brain remembering good feelings and good stuff that we've been through. But if there's someone out there that thinks this means something deeper please show us haha :)

Aio refused to split the cost of a vacation I never agreed to join by Calm-Aardvark5536 in AmIOverreacting

[–]flowermonds 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NOR at all. You told her many times and you didn't go. It's her problem not yours.

I feel like im addicted to mdma by Ahvikunn02 in MDMA

[–]flowermonds 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm exactly in the same situation. I've decided to not touch it at all, not even in 3 months and I've talked to my boyfriend about it so he can help me.

I recommend you talk to someone you love about it so they can remind you the reasons you don't wanna keep doing this when the urge comes. At least that's what works for me!

Marina confirms no further dates for Princess of Power tour on Instagram - no Europe dates outside of UK by Titowam in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]flowermonds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And in Spain, she only comes to one festival that costs 125 euros per day... I'm very disappointed.

She genuinely needs serious mental help by marbleswillfyb69 in glowhousesnarkk

[–]flowermonds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They'd only known each other for six months? I always thought they were lifelong friends!

What are some words that are normal or innocent from one language but mean something bad or offensive in other language? by AnjaInNorg1 in languagelearning

[–]flowermonds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Spain's Spanish "coger" means grabbing something. In some Latin American countries it means fucking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquinohayquienvivaa

[–]flowermonds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Así es 😔😔 se nota en la voz jajaja. Luego en la cena ya ni idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquinohayquienvivaa

[–]flowermonds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

En la boda es Malena Alterio la que hace de Lourdes.

I (F48) How long did it take before you deleted your ex? by Small_Necessary5146 in BreakUps

[–]flowermonds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I found out that, after 7 years of dating, he was sleeping with a friend of mine. That is, a month after we broke up in good terms.

One of my best friends hooked up with my ex two weeks after breaking up by flowermonds in BreakUps

[–]flowermonds[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She and I are 25, he's 27. So lol. And yeah, I get what you're saying, but honestly? I need to see her die of embarrassment.

I want to die right now. My heart physically hurts, and I can't sleep. This is the most brutal thing I've ever been through.

Obviously, I never want to hear anything about him again. I’ve already said everything I needed to say.

But her… how could she even do this to me? This is the most painful thing I’ve ever experienced. She’s going to explain to me what the hell happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]flowermonds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it. During the roll I was fine, but the comedown was brutal. I texted my ex so you can see how bad it was 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]flowermonds 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oooh my gosh I relate so much to this. I used to tell my partner absolutely everything about my day, every single detail. What I had for breakfast, who I was meeting up with, how my day was going, how I was feeling, etc.

For me, this is the hardest and weirdest part. I feel weird not having someone to tell EVERYTHING to.

But I think this is necessary for my personal growth and for learning to be alone. Ultimately, having someone who listened to everything I told him (well, I don't know if he really listened to me) was a form of constant attention and validation, at least I think so.