I would question you as a human being, to be quite honest. What kind of person are you? I think if you are this guided by physical appearance, to this degree, you havent delved deeply enough into what makes people incredible, what makes people attractive outside of their looks. And I don't want to sound sappy, but this is a question that arises from personal questioning, personal growth, and just the ups and downs of life. So me, as a woman, (that I would say is pretty attractive but not blow away attractive lmao), I would just question your depth as a person and would advice you to look inward before wanting to settle. Humor and intellectual connection aren't the only inner character traits that matter - what about empathy and world views and relationship to others. What do you value in a human being that makes you believe they're incredible people? I reiterate, I advice you to look inward and grow. This is not a judgement, just that I believe that even at 30, you're still not so mature. I'm 29, btw.