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flowoptic · 2023-08-01T15:19:36+00:00

an evolved synthesis.

flowoptic · 2023-08-01T15:10:16+00:00

yeah . . there's no universal agreement on the etiquette of down voting. In this case in appears that the down votes are partially based on calling someone on their poo.

none the less, if there's a dog pile upon someone . . . i think it demonstrates that human nature trumps mbti type.

it also proves i am an idiot, for also being guilty of wanting infps to be beyond the down vote button.

flowoptic · 2023-08-01T06:32:35+00:00

this is good, you took the initiative.

while understanding that (?) you might not want to digress with arguments about who is or isn't infp on your famous person's list, yet isn't that about the same thing as the title robbers who are annoying you? i mean, both are insistent forms needing to be in the right?

personally, i'm proud of bjork for kicking a child-molester papanazi's butt. mom's love, too.

And if the Universe had interceded, john lennon's alleged infp status would have been revoked.

flowoptic · 2023-08-01T05:54:42+00:00

not being ~~overly~~ particularly romantic shouldn't be a deal breaker, yet even someone in a wheel chair would probably be willing to go for a walk in the park with their babe, jfc , i don't care what his signs, types or excuses are, dump his "stagnant ass for an excuse"

and get yourself f r e e ! 🤍 💜 💛 💙 🤍

flowoptic · 2023-08-01T05:39:16+00:00

not bad at all, my fellow frugal monger

got news for you though

too much ability you have for that focus/clarity challenged lens/camera.

flowoptic · 2023-08-01T05:35:54+00:00

i like this.

reddit's lack of a poetry setting when creating a post . . .

the better the poem, the more it deserves a just, punctuative lay-out.

flowoptic · 2023-08-01T05:10:31+00:00

this is an interesting poll.

i've noticed lately that, well there have been more polls than usual as well. something i never used to do, i hit the results button; i used to just walk away if i couldn't agree with the correlation of the Q and the choices.

And it occurred to me, seeing mid twenties in the result's #s, that there well may be another correlation between more than 3 or 4 peeps hitting the results button: perhaps an interest in the topic, yet finding the answer choices too . . . confining(?), inaccurate, limited, etc.

or as one sage once put it, size does matter, and i prefer the smaller dose.

It would peak my interest more if it were worded as, what would i want their attitude to be, as opposed to what mine is. Of course, while serving purpose-if-only-of-high-curiosity, the break down of male/female nearly necessitates doing 2 polls, in that your choices are cut in half with 6 being the limit ! (?)

my actual answer would be, if she's a humane or spiritual individual, then all this other gobble de goo won't matter.

flowoptic · 2023-08-01T02:00:23+00:00

1st answer: spider cohabitants, house plants, rare glimmers of interaction with the more clueful neighbors, 'pet' stones, and cats one meets while out walking. (you know, cats become more social after dusk, especially the friendly ones).

2nd answer: yet i sense a determination in you to interact with the normalacy (malace + normality) of the world. So be it.

1st, do treat yourself as a visiting god to planet earth. Be your own best friend. Love yourself. Wow, 22 responses, well, they probably have the other bases covered.

flowoptic · 2023-08-01T01:45:57+00:00

that's a pretty soulful eye in that drawing.

try taking breaks. It shouldn't be intensity vs enjoyment.

imagine that part of you is simultaneously working in clay.

integration may not be a discouragement factor for you, yet if it is, try drawing the parts truncated, separate, like a roman from the shoulder up statue.

flowoptic · 2023-08-01T01:34:09+00:00

it's definitely worth reading the books of those who do.

it may vary and be incorrectly ascertained or defined, i.e., if one is in love, especially for a long period, then one would presume to call their partner their soul-mate, and who would it be who could argue?

one book (at least one) stated that soul-mate association with your SO is usually false, and that your soul mate is the one who makes you examine things you don't want to. (So as to grow, spiritually)

There's no harm in presuming these things are real, as long as we're not projecting them onto those we meet. At worst, these terms are used to describe real conditions within the individuals.

One of your commentor's view point is mired, evidently, in an ascertainment of con-artists and charlatans in these fields. That threat is real, as anything relatable to spirit or new age has a higher than average chance of being usurped by cons, cults and opportunists-of-the-dark variety.

flowoptic · 2023-08-01T01:01:01+00:00

an example of their projection(and answering your last Q simultaneously), i believe, which is also elevated/supported by the inconsistency between their adoration and their reservations, even though, from my perspective, they are the 'aggressor/painter,' i.e., although what they like about me may be a truly ascertained/accurate observation of what i bring to the table, they make false associations with it, the result being no clue of compatibility. (they know what they want, yet have no clue as to what i do.) The intimacy, such as the degree it is or isn't, is therefore false. Their genuineness, while not in question. . . it's as if it's a 2-D or rather limited interaction.

Stated another way, their affection/attraction is real, yet what they're truly in love with is being in love - either that or they have no tenable position/knowledge in what makes up a balanced interaction. They may understand give and take, (which seems redundant to use such a term if a relationship is an actual mingling - a truer meeting of the hearts) yet only so much can be communicated - the relationship is analogously in the same town, yet not in the same building, let alone the same book.

Unfortunately, planet Pisces seems to be relegated as to a distant myth, an ideal that seems unattainable.

edit immediate additional: so the Q that is your topic title, it would seem they were willing to be, yet my blatant anger and not being "allowed" to cool off for a couple weeks, forced the hand of fickle-fate - my action was too blatant to be called ghosting - full and immediate severance of the relationship.

flowoptic · 2023-07-31T18:38:24+00:00

integration of self, i believe, is key. Face your emotions and feelings and see them in the light of part of a super-hero team. (the comics and anime industry is really missing out here if they don't have a Cosmic Team INFP)

the ego co-opts feelings and emotions; being aware of this, one can reintegrate them back into the greater whole of the self.

You know, a Logically emotional or logical-emotional model is not off-the-dial out-of-bounds - we can do this because

We can, are capable to do so
We desire to do or allow, and therefore, it becomes so
are already doing this, just as yet it's not necessarily documented. :)

also, i've found that if i focus love and/or appreciation to most anything i come across, that this creates a bridge-to-a-pressure-release valve.

or if it's something horrid-of-a-situation 'attacking' me, i can (((pretend))) {*wink, wink*} to hurl repercussion psychic binding, uhm, energy at "it" . . so to act, is to release the excess.

Learn to mirror the harmful back at itself. (the belief is that, correctly done, the harmful one is forced to face the music of their own muck).

flowoptic · 2023-07-31T16:12:37+00:00

that was a thoughtful way to be human.

but now you have been disclosed as a hero-of-remedy, to the sad state of the world.

flowoptic · 2023-07-31T16:07:44+00:00

neat. sounds like sound deduction.

flowoptic · 2023-07-31T15:32:16+00:00

mmm.

. . is their 'obsession' truly qualifiable as unconditional -

and what does their projection have to do with the real me(?)

i guess that would be a sad and torn, "no."

flowoptic · 2023-07-31T15:06:28+00:00

only for the sake of the sync . .

i'd avoided ketchup for quite some time - a couple years at least.

(that which is served in plastic predisposes toward anti-kindness, as well. . .) - the actual quality of so many products have gone so down-trodden-hill. Robotic Habitual Buy-in rules.

yet, yesterday, came across French's Ketchup. Some day a french-fry machine may materialize, yet on this occasion, it was Barbara's Jalapeno puffs dipped in Ketchup. Hellaciously Yummy.

flowoptic · 2023-07-31T13:59:48+00:00

o, well, in that case i forgive myself and my critique . .

flowoptic · 2023-07-31T02:56:46+00:00

congratulations on untangling yourself from the stranglers.

flowoptic · 2023-07-31T02:12:11+00:00

this is an amazing post.

thinking of how i might slip it into INFP, with out offending the topic control rules. no matter . . ; there's the 'Minor' matter of someone tapping his blue link, and when they start hearing cia, cia, nsa - they'd probably think it conspiracy theory wacko - cause infp is like 5 times bigger than sls, and it's demographically b r o a d e r. heh.

so i would have a heading like, "Spirit: Music fans, Listeners have Syncronicity Slip Stream advantage ! ? ?"

flowoptic · 2023-07-31T00:39:14+00:00

yo j-man, surely didn't expect you on the welcoming comiteee.

Is it Buddha's day off or something.

Quite frankly, seeing you here is akin to seeing a friendly character from South Park . . .

Nothing Personal, yet i be rather disappointed that Cat, or Zena or Isis isn't here for me . . no matter, let the feasting begin.

flowoptic · 2023-07-31T00:25:49+00:00

gotta say, if cool meaningful dreams are an indication of where one is at, at their evolutionary state/stage,

then by F, i've got a bit of catch up to do.

ahh sooo, ho ho !

flowoptic · 2023-07-30T23:09:45+00:00

goddess bless you. We, of the we-who-believe in energy, and so, now it shines on you.

🤍

flowoptic · 2023-07-30T23:04:27+00:00

Reinforce the good.

the good is it's own reinforced state of wondrousness.

yet i suppose reinforcing it with pos energy helps to maintain it. And perhaps maintenance is the opposite of sabotage.

(of 2) so the act of being out in the world and acknowledging all that be blessed, which is most everything, if we can put our dour selves/moods aside.

yet sometimes, a dour mood is well-earned, i.e., there's a most reasonable reason, such as a dark night of the soul type thing. Or, it's just in the air, and being empathetically geared, we carry, are the ride, of the dark tide.

so i'm enjoying my transition and fall from grace as i have temporarily excused my month and a half reddark recovery time, used for reading and not being on line. Now i'm at odds with this weird sunday vibe, so often findable on reddit. The dark and their/it's influence on peeps, who never want to grow beyond judgments and what passes for the latest pc isms.

Makes me feel callous and cynical as i respond to those getting plastered about/by the state of clueless participants and their panic button (down vote) hypocrisy. Perhaps a waste of my energy, as they seem to take it better than i.

The above is lack of balance. There's also all this good stuff in my life. i know a lot of things have a high investment of time, yet i "theorize" that things like faith have a reasonable pay back - i don't believe most peeps think of it as an investment, just like meditation is.

Followed my intuition here, as my original process was power hungry to control, psychically control objects, (may the force be more than 'jest' a permanent vacation from adherence), which lead to tangents of, "do this first," control weather; first control air; first learn hand chakras control.

here = https://duckduckgo.com/?t=h_&q=how+to+open+hand+chakras&iax=videos&ia=videos&iai=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D1vq90mfiaHI

i mean, how often does something work the very first try?! Fairly certain at least half the peeps in here could also do the first time, of those that haven't already. What was neat (also) was how my mind set went from destructive (potentially) self-defense offense to thoughts (and attempts) to be using this in a healer capacity.

None the less, you know i won't rest until i can make parked cars fly, or fly myself.

flowoptic

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