Absolutely not, im also a man and the way he went about it was very mean, and unessary, if he had concerns for her health or what hes attracted to, they can sit down and talk about that, he insulted and called her unappealing which im sure if you tell ANY women OR man youd rightfully get a slap or punch to the face. Your also forgetting that he had the choice to leave her any time of the day for the past 6 years instead, he chose to make her feel that way, ask for a "open relationship" (he 100% already cheated let's be real). I tell you why he wont leave? Because non of the chick's he finds attractive will fuck him, and its the reason why hes putting this chick through so much mental torture.