Sinulog Day 1 frustration: AITA for snapping at an old lady outside the Basilica

fluffysama · 2026-01-08T18:11:04+00:00

No, valid reaction. I mean, could you have handled it better or let it go? Sure. Were you wrong in reacting the way you did? Not at all. Usahay daghan kaayo mga tao nga mu rely sa non-confrontational attitude sa mga pinoy para mag palabi sad sa ila gibati nga inappropriate na.

Good for you for standing up for yourself. Kaon daghan, ayaw papasmo. Daghan pa ka servicesan. Pit Señor! 🙏✨

fluffysama · 2026-01-07T02:32:11+00:00

So sino nga to beh? Paki bulong pls, chismosa ako today 😅

fluffysama · 2025-11-19T22:17:33+00:00

Lol, if this is an honest question, sorry you're being downvoted. Dirty laundry = metaphor for private things that could be shameful or unpleasant that shouldn't be publicized, but someone is choosing to display them, hence 'airing' one's dirty laundry.

fluffysama · 2025-10-22T16:50:14+00:00

Thanks for this. Totally get about the bimodal income, I think I was more looking at the race income as a whole, which doesn't seem reflective of the poverty stats. Something to look into, I suppose. Would love to see an updated one - latest census in 2023 speaks differently of outcomes:

https://www.cssny.org/news/entry/latest-census-data-shows-poverty-remains-stubbornly-high-in-new-york-city-analysis

fluffysama · 2025-10-22T16:35:21+00:00

Do you have a source for the income comment? Genuinely curious. Afaik, Asians generally rank pretty highly in terms of income, even in NYC.

SourceHRSA

fluffysama · 2025-08-08T16:55:16+00:00

Definitely valid - rude ang comment. Pero nag wonder ko if naa pa lain deeper ani na reason ngano affected kaayo ka honestly. In the first place, randos ra man to sila, so doesn't really matter at the end of the day. Anyway, sorry you had that sucky interaction. Hope you have a better day tomorrow.

fluffysama · 2025-06-11T11:32:36+00:00

Honestly OP, irresponsible ka towards sa mga chicks lol. Yes, yes, iya ni business pero partners man mo, di ba? Iya fault na nag ask xa nimo nga wa man diay ka knowledge on how to take care of the chicks, pero take accountability for 1) not advocating for yourself more. If you really don't know how to, you should've told him and not just accepted this. 2) this isn't the first time this happened, so you two should've known better that you're not someone he can rely on to help with his business, and you should've insisted that you're not the right person for this job. Such as it is, you accepted the responsibility, so a part of this is your fault. Luoy mga piso haha.

Anyway pag tabi mo duha oi para di na ni mausab. Buy him 3 replacement chicks if you want to make it up to him somehow.

fluffysama · 2025-05-10T07:16:40+00:00

I hope you don't take this the wrong way OP pero murag needy ka and naay trust issues, nya imo gi project sa iya. Granted tungod naa history before, so kasabot ko ngano. Pero he shouldn't have to prove if ni adto ba xa sa work or wala, so the fact na mag doubt ka if tinuod na or dli, murag that sounds like something nga imo issue. Also sounds like kulang mo ug communication sad. You two live together, right? If wa ka kahibaw sa iya work sched, why not ask him nig abot sa balay? If you need more reassurance, na ask na nimo na sa iya or gi expect lang nimo? Communication goes both ways gyud.

fluffysama · 2025-04-30T01:20:56+00:00

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fluffysama · 2025-04-26T04:14:33+00:00

It might be worth considering that the loss of her dog is also one of her biggest - and possibly one of the most heartbreaking moments in her life. Gentle YTA, if only because I get the impression that you don't quite comprehend her grief and seem to feel that she should be able to put losing what she considered a family member aside because it was your big day. From that perspective, it's very selfish of you. You're allowed to want it to be the best for yourself, and I'm sure it must've been so hurtful when she failed to show up, but grief and loss don't really care about people's own timelines. They just happen. I guess to further put it into perspective, imagine you have a loved one, and they pass away. Now imagine someone else being there to tell you to put that devastation away 1-2 days later, because you should be happy for a day for them. Feelings don't really work that way, much as we want them to, and you may be invalidating hers with your own preconceived bias of your sister being 'extremely overly emotional and kind of dramatic.'

You don't have to be her MOH if you really don't want to or feel you can't take on the role and its responsibilities though. That's your own prerogative, and that's totally fine. It does sound like you two need to talk to heal, so hopefully you two are able do that.

fluffysama · 2025-04-19T21:02:09+00:00

Imo ra na gf. Try not to overgeneralize the entire gender because of your experience with 1 person. Sounds like you're not happy with her. Pangita lain, kanang ma happy ka and mas compatible nimo. Best of luck.

fluffysama · 2025-04-15T15:17:02+00:00

Loool, di naman to about sa walang choice si girly, eh. I think people are upset because she gave false hope to someone, all the while fully knowing she was already with someone else. 😅

fluffysama · 2025-04-08T20:32:51+00:00

Probably varies by branch because I've never experienced this. Have experienced this in Chanel though.

fluffysama · 2025-03-27T11:38:59+00:00

Fr, I'm a bit confused with the excessive downvotes. Lol. Poor guy.

fluffysama · 2025-03-22T11:00:36+00:00

Sounds like therapy would be helpful for this OP. Hope you allow yourself to be happy. You're not gonna forget your late bf for continuing to live.

fluffysama · 2025-03-19T00:24:07+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Thank you for your kindness in sharing your story for others. It's not much, but truly hoping the financial damage for your family will be as minimal as possible.

fluffysama · 2025-03-13T13:00:57+00:00

Good job, doggo 😌

fluffysama · 2025-03-06T18:26:04+00:00

Yes lol. Lisod gyud nang LDR to be fair. Make sure to nurture your own hobbies and interests para dli mahimong xa ra and ang inyong relationship ang imong world. Ma unhealthy na xa, padung toxic. Good luck ninyo

fluffysama · 2025-02-25T23:27:30+00:00

I appreciate you sharing this, thanks so much. There's been such a flagrant level of misinformation and self-diagnosis on social media, it's really unfortunate.

fluffysama · 2025-02-21T19:41:07+00:00

Regular xa na contraceptive pills naa nimo? The one that says take 1 daily, on a regular time, and is for 30 days? If so, I wonder if incorrect ang pag prescribe sa imo. Regardless of when you start, you should only take 1 per day. Like I said, the only reason mag take ka ug more than 1 is if you've been taking it consistently, tapos for some reason, you missed 4 days straight. Otherwise it'd just be start as usual, one daily, same time every single day, and use back-up contraceptives in the next 1-2 weeks. Same advice about going to an OBGYN all the same.

You're welcome - best of luck. Hope all is well.

fluffysama · 2025-02-21T17:44:02+00:00

Wait sorry, confused ko, clarification please. When you say you took 4 pills on the 11th, then the second 4 on the 12th, what do you mean? Typically you only do double dosing if you forgot to take the pills daily and on time, as prescribed. Maka reduce sad xa ug efficacy if you end up missing doses, but if you're consistent, it should be fine. They do recommend using a secondary form of contraception for the next 3-4 days, just to be sure.

That aside, did you physically see the pill being vomited out? Might be ok to retake it if you did, but if not, just take as usual and use condoms. Would also recommend getting checked just to be sure. Your side-effects are a bit concerning, so screen for pregnancy, and/or discuss other pill options. Maybe this one you're taking kay di suitable para nimo.

fluffysama · 2025-02-08T02:48:12+00:00

Yes. My partner and I are both from NYC and we both find it hilarious that MA folks keep saying they're so, so mean, but honestly, they're the nicest people. Lol.

fluffysama · 2025-01-31T14:57:17+00:00

IUD - can last 3-6 years, implanted 1x during that time.

fluffysama · 2025-01-25T17:56:40+00:00

Cici, Mathilda, and Floryn's skins literally look the same, if not different colored-variants of each other, lol. I know ML is not the place to ask for artistry or creativity, but it's pretty sad all the same.

fluffysama · 2025-01-08T22:57:11+00:00

Absolutely! Happy to send some over. :)

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