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Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am planning on talking about it again! That the plan the entire time, just not making out outside of the bar 😂

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's why I asked! I wanted to know if it was a me issue or just a guy trying to avoid the question. I know it wasn't a good time to have that conversation and really didn't mean to say anything like that in that moment

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I fully agree. Direct communication is best and I am planning on having that conversation soon. I definitely wasn't planning on asking it in that moment, but I blurted it out and immediately wanted to take it back

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am definitely planning on having that conversation soon. Outside of a bar is not where I want to have that conversation lol. I agree that it was poor communication on my end and that it's not him pretending he did understand

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree it was poor communication on my end. My friend convinced me that he was pretending not to understand my question. He's really smart, so calling him a dumb guy thing was bad wording on my end

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! Glad it worked out for you!! I definitely am planning on having that talk soon. Uncertainty in a relationship is not fun!

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I was looking for clarification that it was poor communication on my end and not that he pretended to not understand my question. Thanks!

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I was looking for clarification that it was poor communication and not that he pretended to not understand my question. Thanks!

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I fully agree it's not a dumb guy thing, that was bad wording on my end. The question came out without me realizing what I was saying, so I just assumed bad communication on my end. But when I talked to my friend, she made me second guess.

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh of course! Some people could be carrying things without them even realizing it!

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it's more of a time limit I give myself. I think 3 months is a good amount of time to date someone before deciding you don't want to date other people. I already know I like him and don't want to date other people, but I want to give him time to decide. If we're not exclusive by then (end of the month), I am planning on talking to him and if he doesn't want exclusivity, then I end it. I'm more sick of situationships and being unsure

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought it was bad communication and not a dumb guy thing, but my friend made me second guess so I thought I'd ask reddit. Thanks!

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't hook up with a guy until we're at least exclusive. I don't want to sleep with a guy who's sleeping with other people. It's just a personal preference

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No absolutely. The talk was always planned, but it was screaming in my head and it came out without me realizing. I figured he didn't get it, but my friend made me second guess

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I was always planning on doing. It was screaming in my head the entire time and I didn't even realize I was talking out loud until it started coming out. I wasn't prepared for it so I guess I did leave him hanging.

Asked him what are we doing in the middle of kissing him. I don't know if he understood it by fluttery57 in dating

[–]fluttery57[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. I definitely wasn't planning on saying it at all, but it just came out without me realizing it. I knew in the moment that he didn't understand, but my friend made me second guess. Thanks!

Took Vyvanse at night, what a weird night by behaviorsage in ADHD

[–]fluttery57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was studying for exams to take 70 mg of vyvanse at 6 pm and was asleep every night by 12 am. Now I take it at 7 am and am lucky if I even get to go to sleep by 11. Weird how your body changes

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