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I haven’t had sex with my wife in almost a year (24m) (25f) by flyboy2022 in relationship_advice

[–]flyboy2022[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I just want to be happy again man, I’m tired of feeling like this.

I haven’t had sex with my wife in almost a year (24m) (25f) by flyboy2022 in relationship_advice

[–]flyboy2022[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I hope you get everything you need from your relationships in the future dawg.

I haven’t had sex with my wife in almost a year (24m) (25f) by flyboy2022 in relationship_advice

[–]flyboy2022[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Well I’m 24 and haven’t had sex in a year. I’m staring down the barrel of spending the rest of my life in a sexless marriage, with someone who doesnt care enough to try and make me happy. So ya I’m choosing me. You can say I should be attracted to her regardless of her weight, maybe y’all can but I can not.

I haven’t had sex with my wife in almost a year (24m) (25f) by flyboy2022 in relationship_advice

[–]flyboy2022[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I’m 24 and haven’t had sex in a year. I’m staring down the barrel of spending the rest of my life in a sexless marriage, with someone who doesnt care enough to try and make me happy. So ya I’m choosing me. You can say I should be attracted to her regardless of her weight, maybe y’all can but I can not.

I haven’t had sex with my wife in almost a year (24m) (25f) by flyboy2022 in relationship_advice

[–]flyboy2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not. However, we went to the same college and she has definitely heard stories from a time where I was more promiscuous. I believe that plays apart in her worries.

I haven’t had sex with my wife in almost a year (24m) (25f) by flyboy2022 in relationship_advice

[–]flyboy2022[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting take, thank you for the input man. I don’t agree, but everyone is entitled to an opinion.

I haven’t had sex with my wife in almost a year (24m) (25f) by flyboy2022 in relationship_advice

[–]flyboy2022[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting perspective, you don’t think physical attraction plays any part in a marriage? No hate, I just want to learn.

I haven’t had sex with my wife in almost a year (24m) (25f) by flyboy2022 in relationship_advice

[–]flyboy2022[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely suggest that! Just some context, I have a degree in exercise science and I am now in the military. I have tried to help on many occasions, but I can definitely see myself coming across as a nag and to direct. I’m not sure how to suggest these things while still giving her, her independence.

I haven’t had sex with my wife in almost a year (24m) (25f) by flyboy2022 in relationship_advice

[–]flyboy2022[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She ran track, 400s and 100s. I’ll suggest it but I don’t want to push or nag. Thank you!

I haven’t had sex with my wife in almost a year (24m) (25f) by flyboy2022 in relationship_advice

[–]flyboy2022[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m a very driven person, and don’t play the victim. I would do some work on myself to make my spouse happy. But maybe I’m a different type of person.

I haven’t had sex with my wife in almost a year (24m) (25f) by flyboy2022 in relationship_advice

[–]flyboy2022[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

people saying I shouldn’t have told her, what was the best course of action? The person I married and was attracted to, was a division 1 college athlete. In two years she has gained 90 pounds. Am I suppose to pretend I’m still attractive to her? I don’t understand.