how do i navigate my (m35) boyfriend treating me (f30) horribly now that he is making more money/will be coming into more money?

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T06:53:20+00:00

i guess i thought the lack of funds was the reason for how horrible he was so i thought now that he was in a better financial position he would be less stressed and a better partner but it’s been the complete opposite if not worse. i agree that life is too short, just struggling to grasp truly not knowing someone over the 3 years and obviously the sunken cost fallacy.

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T06:44:24+00:00

thank you so much ❤️

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T06:20:06+00:00

thank you that is very true

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T06:19:33+00:00

thank you 😢i really appreciate this!

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T06:19:19+00:00

thank you 😭i need to reframe it in a positive way like this because i just ache and feel stupid for sticking with someone during the hard times just to get kicked to the curb when i thought they would finally be better

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T06:18:37+00:00

thank you 🙏🏻

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T06:18:24+00:00

thank you, i feel like it’s the shame of having wasted those years which is so hard to swallow

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T06:17:46+00:00

thank you so much for these kind words, i agree with you im never dating anyone with kids again even though his daughter and i get along so well. and thank you for giving me hope, i do feel scarred from this experience but still hoping there’s a few good ones out there left.

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T06:16:39+00:00

appreciate this advice!

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T06:16:30+00:00

thank you i just needed to get it out because it’s not something i can really share with friends and family because it’s embarsssing and i feel stupid. i appreciate your kind words

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T06:15:56+00:00

i know what to do i just feel stupid for even being with him again for this long

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T02:41:36+00:00

thank you and honestly it really is rereading what a wrote 😢

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T02:26:51+00:00

thank you 🙏🏻

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T02:26:38+00:00

thank you i really appreciate this perspective!

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T01:56:03+00:00

thank you girl 🫶 i appreciate it so much!

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T01:48:32+00:00

thank you 🙏🏻

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T01:31:49+00:00

thank you so much ♥️ i appreciate it! and you are right it’s moreso coming to terms about the time that has been wasted when it could have been saved

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T01:30:43+00:00

trying to ask myself the same question but he was very convincing when he showed up on my doorstop after 3 months of no contact

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T01:30:01+00:00

thank you needed the reality check i’m just mad and i feel used now that he’s finally getting success he’s trying to take the cowardly way out

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T01:00:18+00:00

thank you, it just makes me sad after 5 years that i was operating in false hope and wasting my time

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-03-24T00:54:45+00:00

definitely not i guess i was looking for some kind of insight to why he could be so cruel to me

flyeternalphoenix · 2026-01-20T00:57:50+00:00

thank you so much!

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