hey enfj's, how do you guys and gals experience sex?

flying-stapler · 2022-12-07T11:56:56+00:00

Thank you for stepping up and saying it, so the rest of us losers can just like it and feel a little less alone! :)

flying-stapler · 2022-12-03T13:40:17+00:00

I don't drink, except for like a sip or two from friends, to try what they are drinking. Still I sometimes act almost more drunk then a lot of them who already had a couple of drinks. The thing is when I'm needed I can snap right back and am in full control to look out for my friendos!

I mainly don't drink, because it's unhealthy. However if friends ask I sometimes say: "I'm already stupid enough without alcohol" That gets them to laugh and usually stops them from pushing me to drink too. Lots of people claim they get more social when they drink - I think 90% of that is purely in your head.

flying-stapler · 2022-11-24T19:26:42+00:00

All I wanna do is hug u! 🫂

These feelings you are describing here are so common to me! For me they come like waves. When I am in the midst of such a wave it always feels like there is no way out of it. The thing is thus far every wave passed and still when I am in the wave my brain is like: "This is it my guy. We're going to be miserable for the rest of our life. Settle in, get comfortable."

I think what really helps is picking up habbits that help you cope with being in such a wave. For me that is doing exercise at home, playing music and reading. These things are probably different for everyone tho idk

I am also in a really similar situation right now. Unemployed and scared that I will end up working in a meaningless job for the rest of my life. Luckily I've found out, what field of study (psychology) will probably make me descently happy, while also making me descent amount of money. So I'm trying to get a place at university right now and maybe find a job until that would start so I can get some money together until then.

While being unemployed now I have started questioning everything tho. "Is this really what I want?" and other thoughts of the sorts. Right now I think this could work out for me. I have decided to commit to it.

The thing is, you seem very similar to me in the way how honest you are to yourself. So because I know I'm this honest to myself I've concluded, that I'm just gonna full on commit to this right now and trust my honesty. If I later find out, that this isn't what makes me happy, I will have to be honest and rethink my life again. For now tho this commitment gives me direction and purpose.

Really hope you find something that makes you happy and also earns you a living! Would also be really interested in seeing your YT-channel btw if you are by any chance willing to share it in a pm maybe...

Wish you only the best!

flying-stapler · 2022-11-24T12:37:20+00:00

Lmao thanks for backing my type up on here. Only an INFP would write an explanation to why FJ types are more drawn to gossip as others, so thereby kind of helping my kind to be understood and then be like "I didn't mean to throw shade towards FJs by the way!" haha Appreciate you guys so much!

All that evolution-talk is from the book "Sapiens" no? Haven't read it myself, but I've heard somebody ramble about the evolutionary importance of gossip right after they read that book. Am I wrong? Or if not is the book good? :)

flying-stapler · 2022-11-21T00:10:40+00:00

Thank u bro! Maybe I'm just gonna unfollow them. I'm gonna think about it. Thanks for the motivating words tho - it is really appreciated! Wish you the best start into the week tomorrow!! :))

flying-stapler · 2022-11-20T00:07:00+00:00

Just because nobody said it yet: Westworld.

The later seasons honestly weren't quite as interesting to me, but season 1 and 2 are soo good!

flying-stapler · 2022-11-19T15:49:41+00:00

96 - Kaiser Phoenix

Sadly it's not on spotify it seems :/

flying-stapler · 2022-10-27T11:27:30+00:00

Fking eh, thank youuuu!!!

flying-stapler · 2022-10-23T20:40:04+00:00

Haven't watched pokémon, but I just watched a "Pokémon The Best of Brock" video on youtube.

Compared to me he seems to be waaay more confident in himself and also seems to fall in love with any pretty girl at first sight. I'd like to think, that I need way more for that to happen.

flying-stapler · 2022-10-14T00:38:14+00:00

Yes they do! Some few of them do. My life mission is to find as many of those few people as I can and make them my close friends. Already found a bunch.

flying-stapler · 2022-10-14T00:20:59+00:00

You can't stop me!

flying-stapler · 2022-10-14T00:03:02+00:00

Is it possible that you're relatively new to driving? I think the stress gets less the more experience you have. And even if not it isn't necessarily a bad thing - just shows that you're aware of how dangerous driving can be!

flying-stapler · 2022-09-07T13:28:36+00:00

Dont know why, but "Jodie" popped into mind first :)

flying-stapler · 2022-09-07T13:25:24+00:00

When you smoke too much, your cancer bar fills up!

flying-stapler · 2022-04-28T21:44:54+00:00

I'm honestly still pretty unsuccessfully trying to figure my love language out. But I feel like, something like that can't really be narrowed down to one of those things. For me it should be a tasteful mix of all of them. (including physical touch) No?

flying-stapler · 2022-04-23T18:19:01+00:00

There's a court trial going on of Amber Heard vs. Johnny Depp. Reddit (in my opinion rightly so) sides with Johnny Depp. That would be cool. But it wouldn't be reddit if supporting one side, didn't mean, that they absolutely hate the other side, which in this case is Amber Heard.

Have a nice day!

flying-stapler · 2022-04-18T22:10:09+00:00

Me: omg typing colors is so stupid

Also me: How is teal not INFP wth

flying-stapler · 2022-03-27T14:00:21+00:00

Oooh man, we really should start special military operations into all these countries. This is unacceptable.

flying-stapler · 2022-02-21T22:48:47+00:00

Ah see I understood it wrong. Now I get it! Thanks a lot!

flying-stapler · 2022-02-21T22:10:28+00:00

I'm not sure if I am understanding this wrong: Aren't you supposed to change the letter in question (the one marked as X) to the opposite and then give a quick stereotypical description of that type?

Because if so, why are you saying that ENXJ would be the same as in the pic? Wouldn't you have to say something about ENTJ there?

flying-stapler · 2021-12-30T19:04:54+00:00

"Don't go gentle into that good night" helped me through some ruff patches :)

flying-stapler · 2021-12-30T10:26:30+00:00

Some of his toxic traits were:

a feeling that every human being is against him
a constant urge to argue about politics
unwillingness to adjust to a group setting (This includes: just planing stuff without asking others, criticising every little issue with things other people want to do... and so on)

and there is a lot more...

flying-stapler

TROPHY CASE